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| Author: | mydogodish [ Mon Feb 18, 2008 2:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | I can't get past a month with girls I like! |
This is my first post but I have been involved in the game very loosely for about a year now. I swear I have a curse. I am pretty good with girls and have become much better after reading the Game, Mystery Method, Double Your Dating, and some other things but for some reason whenever I find a girl I actually like and would like to have a relationship, things always fall apart after about a month of haning out. I will illustrate my most recent downfall: I got picked up by this girl at a bar and we hit it off instantly (we were both quite drunk and it was towards the end of the night). We were with each other from that moment until the bar closed and we got a ride home to my place where we made out but she wouldn't let me do anything sexually with her. I wasn't super interested in the beginning, although she is pretty hot with a perfect body so definitely the type of girl who a lot of guys would fall for instantly. I played very good game throughout the coming weeks and we hung out and slept at each others houses probably about every other night for about 3 or 4 weeks. I was doing well with push pull, not ass kissing (like several other guys who were constantly texting and calling her), busting her balls, and dhv's. I had framed that I don't like buying girls hearts so we hadn't done any conventional dating but I felt like it was about time to take her out to dinner. We set up a date for the end of the week and it seemed like we were both excited for it but that afternoon she wasn't feeling very well so she just invited me over to "be boring with her". This is the last time I have seen her and this was more than a week ago. We have texted a little bit and she always ends up eventually responding but it seems like she is just constantly busy now and isn't showing any interest in hanging out. I know she is a few months out of a 2 year relationship so I am thinking that the ex-boyfriend may be in the picture but I havn't found that out yet because I have been trying to give her space and not seem too needy. We were supposed to hang out this weekend but she ended up picking up shifts and she said she would call me if she had some time. To try to get the one-itis out of my head I went out to a party last night and had sex with a girl that I have hooked up with on several occasions before but have never had sex with. Didn't help. I am trying to play things in a way that conveys that I am the prize and my plan was to tell her that I think we should just be friends because she is obviously having issues with her old relationship and then flirt with her like crazy (D. Deangelo) but I havn't even had the opportunity to hang out with her and I don't know how persisitent I should be in pursuing a time to hang out. I am worried that I got too comfortable with her and too predictable and now she has lost interest and has possibly reconsidered her relationship with her b/f (she broke up with him "because he treated her like shit") So I just don't know how to handle things. She is a really cool girl and we have a lot of great things in common and I would really like to make things work. Should I be persistent and make it known that I am willing to put in energy to see her, even when I am getting nothing in return? Or should I just give her space and see what happens? Help me, the one-itis has its stronghold on me! |
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