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| Author: | Negtar [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 10:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Is being talkative THAT important? |
I've heard that being talkative initially when you approach a girl is crucial from many people. But, this one unanswered question keeps bugging me; even if I am in the comfort phase with the HB, do I still have to be that talkative to keep her engaged? |
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| Author: | DonMontana [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 10:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
I rarely talk, I let the girls do the talking and seduce themselves. |
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| Author: | Negtar [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 11:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
Quote: I rarely talk, I let the girls do the talking and seduce themselves.
Could you share how you do that? I'd appreciate if you could briefly share!
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Tue Oct 22, 2013 3:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
20% speaking 80% listening.... just give her the outline and let her yap her brains out. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Tue Oct 22, 2013 3:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xLSfY_eAdaU |
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| Author: | sneakyjohn007 [ Tue Oct 22, 2013 5:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
i know a guy who literally has chicks begging for him because he doesn't talk text or call them. he only does things if they do it first including making out. I guess it works but i tried it once and it ended horribly for me. guess ill stick to making them laugh.. 
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| Author: | mr.OliverKing [ Tue Oct 22, 2013 7:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
Quote: I've heard that being talkative initially when you approach a girl is crucial from many people.
It's more about your mindset here. The less you talk, the less you fuck up. Eye contact, smile,and good body language will help you a lot. But, this one unanswered question keeps bugging me; even if I am in the comfort phase with the HB, do I still have to be that talkative to keep her engaged? You have to realize that awkwardness is good. It creates sexual tension. She will do all the job, just be comfortable with yourself |
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| Author: | Negtar [ Wed Oct 23, 2013 11:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
I'm still quite not comfortable with awkward pauses, that has to be fixed) |
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| Author: | Corean [ Wed Oct 23, 2013 2:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
I'm not much of a talktative person. I'm usually have a stern face and have good posture I've heard that these three characteristics creates a mysterious SPAM around me? Sorry if it sounds weird, it's an expression used in my country. I've also been told that it makes me look mature for my age. It HAS helped me out with women |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Wed Oct 23, 2013 3:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
When you're at the comfort phase let them invest in you and talk to you. Flirt with them, keep kino up and if she's giving IOIs reward her. I've found the shorter the opening the better your chances are. Move quickly from the opening and right into comfort if you can. I usually only get fast rapport phases if I can open them without approaching(They're near me). I would usually make an observation and then open from there and ask her what her interests are and try find common ground like a show, an area or something and let her talk more about it. |
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| Author: | Negtar [ Wed Oct 23, 2013 3:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
Hmm I see, so I've been thinking about "how to keep her talking" Do I simply keep throwing in such phrases? - could you expand more on that, I like that - what's your favourite part of it - how does that make you feel? - do you do anything else? - what are they? - tell me about it are these good lines to throw in, to keep her talking? |
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| Author: | Gabriel Angelo [ Thu Oct 24, 2013 11:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
More important than talking is social calibration. How is the interaction going? Most guys say talking is important because talking is the fuel that drives most of the interaction. If you 2 aren't talking there is this awkward silence creeps in making both of you uncomfortable, so there is a sense of comfort when there is noise heard than the quietness of 2 people. You can let her drive the interaction the entire time, all you have to is to use your reactional skills to react to whatever she says. Basically, a great mindset to always have is think of you 2 on a movie set and you already have the predetermined role to play and you're just living out your character, this will help you generate responses with interacting with her. |
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| Author: | Negtar [ Fri Oct 25, 2013 4:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
Interaction is going phenomenal on text games, but since she came from Armenia, she struggles a little when she is talking to be face to face, even though I am calm.. Should I get her to talk even if her language is not fluent? do you think it's too much pressure on her? haha thanks) |
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| Author: | Negtar [ Fri Oct 25, 2013 5:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
Interaction is going phenomenal on text games, but since she came from Armenia, she struggles a little when she is talking to be face to face, even though I am calm.. Should I get her to talk even if her language is not fluent? do you think it's too much pressure on her? haha thanks) |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Fri Oct 25, 2013 12:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is being talkative THAT important? |
Obviously she's uncomfortable or shy. You need to build rapport all over and make her comfortable around you physically. Try being light hearted, joking around with her and poking fun at her for her English mistakes or whatever but make sure she knows you're just teasing. She'll loosen up fast if you do this. |
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