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Author:  Negtar [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 8:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
Hi, I've been gaming several HBs, and I've decided to go for this HB
She's from Armenia and is NOT good in English.
We can have the greatest conversation online, but when it comes to face-to-face
she sometimes struggles speaking English. Plus, she's SHY.

For about two days, we've been building comfort.
I sent her a several flirt texts, and she responded with loads of IOIs
- going along with the flirt
- telling me how funny I am
- telling me she can't stop laughing while texting me

SO, I assumed comfort was established, and I planned to escalate more in school.

But, what I noticed in the school is...she's really shy.
As soon as I entered her class, I started talking to her right away.
I was showing decent body language (I think)
- leaned back, sitting on the chair
- loud and clear voice
- good eye contact
I was, to be honest, really calm, but she looked really NERVOUS.
We couldn't have the same level of flirty talk as we did on text messages!

and..when I came back home, boom
I received
"Hi. Sorry about today. I was a little bit nervous. I don't know why:)"

I was perplexed after receiving the text;
"was flirting via text the problem?"
"should I stop flirting on text, and focus on face-to-face interaction more?"
"should I build more comfort?"

I am having a hard time figuring out what to do about it, I need some advises here:(
Thank you guys!
Author:  Xoved [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 9:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
She, herself, admitted that she was nervous. That might be because she's not a very social person.

That's like saying "I really want you badly but I'm shy to act it"

Take her out on a date and escalate there. Shy girls are wild girls when they are completely comfortable around you and with the SPAM around them.
Author:  Melodical [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
Just barrel through and keep what your doing to increase the comfort. Nothing to worry about, some girls are shy at first but remember : It's at first.
Author:  Negtar [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 10:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
Thanks guys, I interpreted as though she lost interest in me
sometimes this over-analysis really gets me:)
cheers, happy sarging!
Author:  just-some-guy [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 10:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
seems to me her shyness is largely due to her poor english; shyness is not a problem in text because she has time to compose what she wants to say, and is not under pressure to respond like when its face to face.

seems like you're doing good so far so keep it up, just bear in mind in face to face meets about her anxiety. maybe even pass little notes back & forth in class instead of talking.
ive been there before myself when in a foreign country.. date tip - cinema is good, lot less pressure on her to speak a lot like over drinks or dinner. foreign bird tip - ask her to teach you some words in her language they looooooooove that

and ive found that a lot of girls communicate better/more flirty by text/email/online/whatever anyway
Author:  Negtar [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 10:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
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seems to me her shyness is largely due to her poor english; shyness is not a problem in text because she has time to compose what she wants to say, and is not under pressure to respond like when its face to face.

seems like you're doing good so far so keep it up, just bear in mind in face to face meets about her anxiety. maybe even pass little notes back & forth in class instead of talking.
ive been there before myself when in a foreign country. and ive found that a lot of girls communicate better/more flirty by text/email/online/whatever
Cheers))
is there any way I can alleviate her nervousness? or will it get better over time?
Author:  just-some-guy [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 10:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
imo she will get more comfortable when her english improves. there's your key. has she been around long/learning english long?

btw i edited my last post there with a couple of foreign girl tips. you could help her learn english and then she'll help you learn how to bang her lol
Author:  Negtar [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 10:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
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imo she will get more comfortable when her english improves. there's your key. has she been around long/learning english long?

btw i edited my last post there with a couple of foreign girl tips. you could help her learn english and then she'll help you learn how to bang her lol
I have no idea how many years she lived abroad Russia, but one thing I am sure of is that her speaking structure is very simple. For example, "haha I don't know. I do that. I enjoy doing that" instead of something like "haha I don't know..I like to do that because I enjoy it so much!"

Definitely trying out the "teach me how to say_______ in Russian" ;) sounds brilliant
Author:  Negtar [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 10:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
Text message history:
Me: ahaha (mirroring; she uses ahaha all the time) Night ;* (she sent this kiss first on facebook)
HB: Good night) have a nice dreams ^^ ;*
Me: Don't you dare pop into my dream xx
HB: Ahaha)) it depends on you ;)
Me: Cheeky ;)
HB: =) ;*
.
.
.(after she told me she was a bit nervous seeing me)
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Me: Spokonoy Nochi(anchoring; she told me how to wish good night after we had a great convo), I'll see you on the first break) Relax! I don't bite x
HB: Ahah) Ok ok) I believe you. See you :*


Facebook conversation:

HB: (name) where is a your gym situated?
me: Bay street.
HB: Thank you. Maybe I will go there... One day ))
me: Sounds good) We are so going to look like vampires at school;) <-- it was 2 in the morning :P
HB: Ahaha)) yeah)
me: I'll bite your neck! yum!))
HB: Ahahahaha)) I m always laughing when I m chatting with you))) You are so funny!)
me: too much
HB: too much what?
me: too much interest to handle! <3
HB: ^^ but it's true #^^#
me: I mean you are okay looking, but what I LOVE about you is your great energy, personality and sense of fashion
HB: Oh thank you #^^#
me: ;) alright enough of flirting We'll flirt in school (it's SECRET)
HB: Ahahahaha)))
me: get this, we should give each other a massage today, I'll be so tired, I feel it;)
HB: Ahaha) I cannot laugh so much))) Maybe you will see it in your dreams ;)
me: Maybe I'll take you to the hospital, young lady, you've been laughing too much!
HB:Ahaha)
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.
.
So on...good & flirty convo below
+she just started qualifying herself to me with her taste of music
:)
Author:  vicparkguy83 [ Tue Oct 22, 2013 5:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
Just because shes shy doesn't mean you have to go on this endless comfort crusade. Start escalating before she gets TOO comfortable and start valuing you as a friend too much.
Author:  Negtar [ Tue Oct 22, 2013 2:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
How would you go about with escalating in SCHOOL?
I'm feeling we are not really escalating much in school :P and I feel like as though I'm screwing things up

well, I obsly can't just pull her in, say sexy stuff, kino kino kino and kiss closs like I always do during night game:P
What kind of kino, what kind of convo would you have during the school time?
Author:  just-some-guy [ Sat Oct 26, 2013 9:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
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How would you go about with escalating in SCHOOL?
I'm feeling we are not really escalating much in school :P and I feel like as though I'm screwing things up

well, I obsly can't just pull her in, say sexy stuff, kino kino kino and kiss closs like I always do during night game:P
What kind of kino, what kind of convo would you have during the school time?
before escalating in a particular location you have to consider how far you can go with her in that location, and escalate accordingly (you're probably not gonna bang her in school).

id suggest sitting beside her in class so perfect situation for "incidental" leg to leg or foot to foot or elbow or forearms touching. you gotta think of a good place to lead her to after school gets out
Author:  Negtar [ Sun Oct 27, 2013 4:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
I normally stroke her hair and massage her neck, or lead her with my hand on her lower back;)
Author:  Xoved [ Sun Oct 27, 2013 7:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
You can easily kiss close by now
Author:  Negtar [ Sun Oct 27, 2013 8:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy HB, CONFUSED what is on her mind!
Yup, last night she was dying to kiss me.
Actually now I am working on F-closing the girl)
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