I truely hate it when this happends, my brother got an injury so i cant go snowboarding anymore, my friends are in an annoying situation where i'd rather just take some distance (some bs among them) so i'm spending a lot of my time sitting home playing games with my bro. It's been about 2-3 weeks like this and i feel like my mindset has been destroyed again. There's not much feeling to go out, i always search for excuses whilst before i would take every offer, do everything considered nuts and now i'm sitting in a shell of fear so to say. On top of that there was some messaging between me and this hb9, when i asked her to tell me about herself she told me ''she'd rather go out for a drink and talk about things that way''.. I'm unsure of how to handle it cause i dont feel like my old predator self. Need advice on some mental boosting.

...As for "out of shape" - if it doesn't bother you, it won't bother the girls. I put on 30 pounds on purpose as a experiment to see if it would effect my success with women. It didn't one bit, because my confidence is my greatest asset.