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| Author: | Dreammaker12 [ Fri Jul 26, 2013 11:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Date with a solid 8 |
Hey all, Dreammaker12 here. I've never been a ladies man, but I've had a few girlfriends over the years, which included sex and the whole 9. But I've been out of the game for a while now, and have a date coming up within the next 48 hours. I just wanted to get a question out in the air, to patch my game up as much as possible, and relieve some of that familiar anxiety. We are doing the very familiar Dinner and a movie scheme, which she is quite ok with. I'm horrible at small talk. This isn't exclusive to the ladies, but extends out through work, and other small social gatherings; that is, until I get a little alcohol in me. But that is not possible in this case. Might I add that I am a very Introverted person. so does anyone have any tips on this topic? I also want to add that I skipped the whole pick-up aspect with this girl. Somehow, I scored a date with her very easily. She is a very beautiful person, and I am very attracted to her, which adds to the whole equation. Thanks for any and all help. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Sat Jul 27, 2013 3:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Date with a solid 8 |
Quote: I skipped the whole pick-up aspect with this girl. Somehow, I scored a date with her very easily.
You didn't do shit.My guess is that she already knows you? She was/is already attracted to YOU. Your horrible at small talk? Good! Talking during a movie is frowned upon. Quit over thinking what you have/need to do. Just keep not doing shit. Be yourself - she already likes you. Your already in. The ONLY thing that will fuck it up is if you DON'T make a move. She wants you to...... Now the big question? When? When you get that feeling in the pit of your stomach, like you don't know if you should or not? That's when. |
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| Author: | Soy Un Pony Dork [ Sat Jul 27, 2013 3:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Date with a solid 8 |
Quote: Quote: I skipped the whole pick-up aspect with this girl. Somehow, I scored a date with her very easily.
You didn't do shit.My guess is that she already knows you? She was/is already attracted to YOU. Your horrible at small talk? Good! Talking during a movie is frowned upon. Quit over thinking what you have/need to do. Just keep not doing shit. Be yourself - she already likes you. Your already in. The ONLY thing that will fuck it up is if you DON'T make a move. She wants you to...... Now the big question? When? When you get that feeling in the pit of your stomach, like you don't know if you should or not? That's when. I think small talk is useful in other settings though. You use it to butter a person up and figure out their motives. You can tell a lot about a person just by the way they present themselves to people. Mostly you can figure out whether or not they're comfortable with small talk. |
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