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Author:  Sniper267 [ Fri Jun 14, 2013 5:12 pm ]
Post subject:  First Approach

Ok I need some clarification and definitely some help
when your doing the approach what are the steps you take to close

This is what I know:
1. Opener
2. Neg

I don't know what to say after the neg? What do I say next?
plz help!

Sniper267

Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First Approach

This does not belong in the lounge.... Please follow and read the forum rules

General questions... It's been moved.

Peace and Love,

Vic

Author:  Psydaddy [ Sun Jun 16, 2013 12:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: First Approach

In my opinion it's not good if you approach a girl with a neg because you can ruin your game with it!
There are some different kind of negs tho, and there are some pretty fucked up ones i might say. Those i don't like, for example you shouldn't treat bad a girl, if you treat bad a girl (about her intelligence, culture whatever) you'll make her uncomfortable and thinking that you are a jerk.
Girls can handle some neg's, but after awhile they start to hate you, believe me i've made some "unfriends" because of that!

You shouldn't neg girls! I just neg's to defend my self from shit-testings for example when they ask me what i'm doing there, i usually say: I'm here talking to him\her, you are not so special!
Or when the girl don't want to make something funny with me then i take the nearest girl and i do it with her in front of her (it's almost a neg).

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But ok, forget about negs! You need to talk to them. I would recommend you direct game, trust me it's hard at the beginning but you'll get really well with it quickly. Girls like the unusual comment like:
- You'll have to excuse me but i saw your gorgeous shining eyes and i had to came to say at least hi
- Hi, this going to sound a little random but you luck outstanding on that dress, although I'm in a rush i had to say hi.
Works almost all the time!

Then say your name, shake hands and say:
- What are you doing here in this awesome day?
- You seam to be in some kinda of modelling thing, did i guess well?
- I can say that you are from France because you have this warm and sexy ascent.

etc, etc..
Not: Don't make a lot of questions, you can throw questions but you have to make some guesses and some positive affirmations.

Also say that you are in a rush to meet up with your friends, it will trigger then the idea that you are not going to bother them, you just wanted to say hi because you are a kind type of person.

Best of luck

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