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Author:  cunning_stunt [ Thu Apr 04, 2013 12:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl finally came back to me after chase.. how to respond?
Have posted about this girl before and some good advice given when she didnt respond.
Have finally had a good response from her now (I think) and wanted some advice where to go with it.
I have hung in there as I know she has/had a boyfriend, otherwise would have stopped long time ago.


* I met her last Sept/Oct at an event.
* We really hit it off but she had a bf standing nearby
* Wouldn't give tel number but gave it the 'im on facebook'
* I added her a few days later but she didnt accept/respond.
* 4 weeks later, I emailed her one line and she didnt reply.
* I know she saw it as there is a read receipt.

At this point, I should have given up. I would do normally, but I actually really liked this girl and was so sure it wasnt a dead loss. - despite the bf.

* 4 weeks ago I wrote her an email on FB.
* Mentioned our meet, thought she had something about her and that we should meet for a coffee.
* Didnt go overboard about her being amazing, beautiful or any shit like that. Just kept it simple.
* On the same day, she finally accepted my Friend request (giving hope).. but then nothing.
* My birthday last week and i got alot of messages from cute girls. I also uploaded a proper face pic of me.
* No happy birthday message from her. That was last straw for me.
* Been out gaming and meeting new girls and sort of forgotten about her.
* Low and behold..Last night, she emails me?!.. :

Hey (name), how are things? Thanks for yr message and I am sorry for being retarded at Facebook... Generally I am rubbish at mod comms! Coffee sounds good. How's Sunday?


so.. where the hell do I go with this now? here are my thoughts..

* I dont buy her excuse. As her friend on FB, I can see she is liking things every day or so..
* Is it Worth meeting regardless - she may have a good reason for all of this i.e. boyfriend/ex
* DO I agree to Sunday?. or suggest another day?..When to reply?
* How should I be when I meet her.. whats my approach?.
* If she asks what I liked about her.. i may just respond 'you were quite funny for a girl'. nothing more.

Appreciate the focus on little details but I am renowned for fucking things up and this is the only girl I have met in a long time that had me thinking about her. If it doesn't work, fine and it's game on with others, but I want to see what happens and really appreciate the advice.
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