Okay, so I tried one way of asking a girl out where she actually tells you what girls like and you use that on her but I failed.. (somehow)
here`s a copy of the convo (everything happened in person, not via text!)
me: Hey, you`re girl, you can help with something maybe. See, I met a wonderful girl some time ago and would like to ask her out if you have an idea maybe.
her: well, guys are the ones who should have ideas.
me: I know, I have them but would like to hear what girls like.
her: We girls actually don`t know what we want.
me: haha, you got that right. Do you actually know why I asked you that?
her: um no, why?
me: cause you somehow know that person.
her: ou, who?
me: here, let me show you (I brought her in front of the window). Just take a look in that window and you`ll see.. (it was over here)
her: aww
, I understand but I think no idea would help here.me: really? not even a baloon ride?
her: haha, no
me: don`t say something you can`t be sure girl, you said you girls have no idea what you want.
her: I know what I want (bullsh1t, she told me last time the other thing)
me: ou really, tell me about it
her: Oh, ou, well, that is not something I can tell you (another bullsh1t)
then a snow felt down from the roof in front of us lol
me: haha, that was a gift from the god for being that rude
her: no, god likes me
me: I bet he does ya
then we talked a liitle about some shit and then we had to left
I think I`m not screwed despite these answers cause her face expression and voice were telling me something else. She said that no idea will help me pretty confident like in the way haaa, you`re screwed, you can`t win and then I put her in a quite hard position by asking her what she wants. I saw that on her face, she couldn`t even look at my eyes, kinda looked down. She could have just told me she has a bf, she is seeing someone else, she is not interested, she doesn`t want a bf but noooo, she threw in another "bait" to think about. And later that day she posted some love song which she didn`t do for more than a month.
lyrics:
Dizz,dizz.everything looks dizzy to me when I see you
Dizz ,dizz,does it seem dizzy to you also
Some loves pass off,some never to happen
This one of mine is the phenomenon
Who else can stand loving the only one they aren't one-to-one
Obligately come alone,come to me in the night,come to me in the day
Obligately come alone,come to my palm,come to my flat
Seven out of eight women would say,say goodbye,the end
Seven out of eight women would say they would,would,would
But you should know I'm 8th
She did something similar when I met her (I`ve known her for about two months). That time she posted on facebook that is easy to fall in love but hard to tell it and she hid that post from me (a friend told me it is there).
So, I`m assuming she wants me to put more effort in this. My plan for the next time is ..
I will say hey, so have you thought when are we going to grab some coffee? I`ll show her my persistence and that I don`t care what she thinks and what she said so far.
What do you think about all this?