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| Author: | Recast [ Sat Mar 30, 2013 3:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Can I rekindle the flame? |
Long story short, last year I was in a university group with a girl we really hit if off. I did the standard AFC stuff, texted to much, pretty awkward at times in social interactions as well. She did like me, I was just too late capitalizing on it and our communications kind of just died off. This year I am no longer socially awkward, have lots of friends, and have significantly changed since I first met her. I was emotionally abused growing up so over the past year I've been working really hard at connecting with people on an emotional level and opening myself up. She has also changed, she is still kind of shy and introverted, but she has more drive to succeed then she used too. Anyway needless to say I'm interested again and I rarely see girls with her type of personality at my university, so she is a real catch. I know the #1 rule to get a girl is to not be afraid of loosing her, but there is such a small supply of genuine people at my school I find it hard to act like this. We still say hi to each other around school, and I recently just got the same summer job as she had last year. Would it be easy for me to re-initiate attraction if I asked her out for coffee over fb to discuss the job? Any specific route I should take? |
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| Author: | Wizzay [ Sat Mar 30, 2013 12:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Can I rekindle the flame? |
Don't ask her to coffee ON FB to discuss your job, you can do that via fb also, thats what she'll think. Hmm I would try to meet her at a party or any other social event that you'll both be attending? And from there have a small chat and show her how much more confident and attractive you've become and escalate here and there, and try to spark a little attraction and once that has happened you can throw an invite to join you to coffee or something . |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Sat Mar 30, 2013 1:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Can I rekindle the flame? |
You say you see her occasionally and just say hi. Why not turn it into more than just hi. Say you're going for a coffee and invite her along. A FB message is way too easy to decline or ignore. |
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| Author: | Recast [ Sat Mar 30, 2013 3:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Can I rekindle the flame? |
Alright so no facebook then. I was actually just at a social event she hosted, I never got a chance to talk long with her however as she was always busy doing something. Hopefully I will run into her around school as exams are coming up. That being said once we go out for coffee, I should just do the usual emotional connection routine followed by some kino? |
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| Author: | Wizzay [ Sun Mar 31, 2013 1:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Can I rekindle the flame? |
Yeah if you do however get to coffee, just have fun and keep laughing with her, talk abit about serieus stuff, and at some point you can be like, enough serieus talk, lets go have some fun and then go play pool or bowling or maybe you can be like im a bit hungy, lets go have some food. |
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