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Author:  MuddyTheKing [ Thu Mar 28, 2013 11:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Stucked with messaging
i can approach and build comfort easily.i get numbers from ladies.but after 3-4 message suddenly they lose their interest what i do wrong. i ussualy use theese routines. 6-7 hours after got number.text her 1-greetings 2-her name 3-something funny 4-piece of information that i glad to meet her. everything is okay until now. they become interested and answer with excitiment but after a few message.while i trying to make they comfortable they suddenly cut interest off.should i pass the small talks and only text them for meetings ?
Author:  MuddyTheKing [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 10:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Stucked with messaging
don't you guys have an idea?
Author:  smushed [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 10:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Stucked with messaging
Maybe look into capitalization and grammar?

Seriously, though. Can you post some of your exchanges? It's hard to give advice on such a generic question.
Author:  MuddyTheKing [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 11:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Stucked with messaging
Dude i'm not an English sorry about my english.i just met a girl on a bar.she approach me and i did my opener.she told me owing her a meeting.i builded kino. i could kiss her but i didn't make my move. we swapped our phone numbers.by the way i'm living in diffrent country so i can't translate everything corretly and there are some difference between our cultures.
following day-
MTK-Hey 'she's name'. Tall guy from ''places' name''.you should take my number so we can hang out sometime :)
G- My name is not **** what did you drink last night :/
MTK-I give you my phone and you write '' ''. What did you drink last night ??
G-Hahah i don't even know . I was so high :)
MTK-You tried to kiss me but i said slow down :)
G-Hahahaha i remember that you liked my perfume :)
MTK- and i remember that you like my magic trick ..
G-i can't remember. i will call you in 5 min
MTK-oh i'm about to start my workout. i will call you later
G-ok.
after 2 hour
G- hurry up. i gotta sleep
after 30 min
i called her and we talked she said she is too busy this week but she wants to see me.text me tomorrow she said
---
MTK- you can't sleep right now ??
G- Hahah i'm awake :)
MTK- how interesting a day could be? I had an very interesting day :D
G-i can't get it
MTK- ..... happened and ...... happened
... not responed yet

what i did wrong?
Author:  smushed [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 12:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stucked with messaging
I'm just joking about the English. I live in a non-English speaking country as well, so it's normal.

Why didn't you kiss her? Maybe, that says you lack some confidence. The exchange was good, but when it went sexual, you went to your magic trick. doh!

Anyway, went great and she wanted to call you. I would have let that happen, but your approach was good.

I think you killed it in your conversion. What did you say? When you call you have to keep on with playing with her. If you call and just try to arrange something you can fail. That's because each interaction type is kind of starting over. Same thing if you see her, have to start again, but now that you are familiar you can go very quickly to kiss then onward.

Look for a good text opener and reopen her.

MTK- you can't sleep right now ??
G- Hahah i'm awake
MTK- how interesting a day could be? I had an very interesting day
G-i can't get it
MTK- ..... happened and ...... happened
... not responed yet

Totally boring. You should have had a plan for how you wanted the text to go.
Author:  MuddyTheKing [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 12:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stucked with messaging
in phone talking. i kept play with her as you said but in messaging you're right i totally got her bored with re-opening. do you have any midgame for messaging?
Author:  smushed [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 1:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stucked with messaging
I think it kind of depends on the humor of the girl. If she is fun and witty then I'll keep on with making jokes and such. Just ask her questions, then make fun of her responses. The point though is to get on the phone with her, then the point of the phone is to get face to face, then to seduce her.

So the faster you can go from one to the other the better, unless you decide that you like a particular interaction type. For example, have had fantastic messaging with a girl, who turned out to be so absolutely boring and plain, that I'd wished I'd never gone out with her. Killed the whole thing. So, just go as quickly as you can, while increasing the sexual tension in each stage.
Author:  MuddyTheKing [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 2:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stucked with messaging
this is a really helpful response.thank you dude
Author:  smushed [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 2:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stucked with messaging
NP. Let us know how it goes.
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