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Author:  matugermany [ Thu Mar 28, 2013 9:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Help with HB 7
Hey guys,

So I met this girl through a friend, they now actually live together. I just had spoken some few words with this girl when we saw each other at a pub. Until a few weeks ago when I went into a club after a wedding party, they were there and we start to dance, and I start to know her better, we had a really good feeling between us. After that we start going out a couple of times and start texting a lot.
Yesterday I made a mistake, after we went out to a club, we went back to her apartment and I start talking while I was touching her face, neck, hair, hands... and she gave me some IOI's playing with her lips and I made the big mistake of telling her I wanted to kiss her... she then start telling me that she like how I was, but she wasnt a girl who kissed someone so early, that if she kiss me she will have to compromise time she dosent have right now, to what I replied that I didnt ask her to kiss me, just that I wanted to do it, but I wasnt going to do it right now... after that we keep talking and she told me to stay with her until she falls to sleep (4.30 AM was this) I stay there doing her some massages and after she slept I leave.
Then I talked with her friend and she told me I shouldn't approach her so directly because she tends to take distance with people after that...I thought I was totally screwing this...until she woke me up at 9.20 AM telling me she just woke up and having the same normal conversation of everyday... so I dont know if I really screw thing up or her drunkness help me, or she is really into me and have to play it slowly.

What do you guys think about this? What should I do now?

Sorry for my english, and thanks for the comments.
Author:  User13247 [ Thu Mar 28, 2013 10:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Help with HB 7
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I made the big mistake of telling her I wanted to kiss her...
Not such a big mistake, but you should have just kissed her instead. Don't listen to her friend, I'm sure (s)he means well, but most people don't know shit about shit. The good news is the girl didn't really reject you, so I think you'll have a second chance. But don't mess that second chance up by 'playing it slowly', or the attraction may die out and you end up friendzoned.
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she then start telling me that she like how I was, but she wasnt a girl who kissed someone so early, that if she kiss me she will have to compromise time she dosent have right now
This is something girls often do: they take very normal social interactions and create a complete dramafest around it (quite possibly because of their own insecurities). Reframe those negative associations into a positive light by subtly reminding her that kissing and sex are fun.
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