and that's the problem! Its like we have both friendzoned each other simultaneously. Haha! The thing is, its not like we just have an assumption that we're both friendzoned. We are really good friends, so we have both been totally open, honest and comfortable talking about it, and we both realize that there isn't that "zing" there. We have both tried to bring that zing in, but this stuff can't be forced. Right? And what's worse, we both know that each other are damn Awesome!, a total catch, and we actually both want that "zing" because everything would be amazing if it were! But neither one of us can figure out why its missing, nor how to bring it in. The bane of being truly good friends together!
So what to do? Is this a lost cause? Should we even try to take things further? Is it just going to haphazardly happen one day? This girl is totally cool, and she says the same thing about me, so if there is some way to make it happen, that would be great.