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Author:  Pie Man [ Fri Mar 22, 2013 7:20 am ]
Post subject:  Did i do this right? What should be my next move?

So last night after signing up for this forum, i decided to commit to the change and head out to one of the local pubs. I was mostly chatting with mates, when suddenly i spotted a HB8 with unique style lining up at the bar by herself (i still cant force myself to open sets, especially when there are other males with the girls) so i moved towards the bar with my mate and positioned myself with my back facing her as if i hadnt noticed her, after chatting a lil with my mate i looked over my shoulder and said "Hey im (my name) nice to meet you" she responded real enthusiastically and introduced herself. After that i broke straight into styles 5 question game (everyone ive played this with has really enjoyed it) she lost and we had a laugh which was a good excuse to start kino, to which she responded really well touching me back. Anyways we fluff tlkd for a while, i negged her, used some more kino, then suggested we go for a dance. So were on the dance floor and shes says "ive just got to tell my friends where i am" she went and did that then came back and kept dancing, feeling confident i suggested she should introduce me to her friends, so we start walking to meet her friends when suddenly she runs into a mutual friend of ours and starts chatting with him for awhile, luckily one my mates is nearby and i use that as an excuse to stay close and chat with him for a bit. So after about 10mins shes still chatting with this dude at which point i spot two attractive female friends of mine on the dance floor. Not wanting to seem desperate like im lingering around waiting for her, i head off and start dancing with my friends. I lose sight of the HB8 after dancing with my friends. So about 45mins goes past where ive been chatting to different mates throughout the pub trying to spot her and i finally see her by the pool table with a few of my mates as the pub is beggining to close. I wait for her to finish chatting with my buddy then decide to head in for the money shot, she speaks first saying "Hey whats ur plans for the rest of the night" i say im heading back home as i have to start work early in the morning, then ask her what hers are, she says "i dont have to work 2moro, so wateva i want" at which point i ask if she would like to come back to my place, to which she responds to by thinking about for a few seconds and eventually says "Not 2nite sorry, i want to go sking early 2moro" i say "no problem" then suggest she give me her phone number so we can meet up some other time, she doesnt have one as she only just arrived in Canada. Again not wanting to seem desperate, especially because she just moved in with 2 people i work with i decide to close saying "All good, will see each other another time. Hows about a kiss good night?" I turn my cheek towards her face and she responds positively and kisses my cheek, then states to herself "This guys a winner" with a cheeky smile. At which point i leave and go to bed.

I apologize for the long story here, but thought id give yous every detail so u can evaluate me on things i maybe could have done differently, if i should have asked for her FB and if i should have kissed her lips after she kissed my cheek??

Any information would be great guys!

Cheers! Pie Man :)

Author:  Testicles [ Fri Mar 22, 2013 9:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Did i do this right? What should be my next move?

If the way I read it was right, you started to build attraction, but then it was cut off. Then, it slowly faded away, and at the end of the night, you went and asked for her number and whatnot, but without any real good interaction between you two, she refused. She could've fucked and go skiing after, but she didn't want to.
Next time, know when to end the interaction, because in most cases the interaction will end for you, and you'll be left with nothing.
You're both having a good time, end it and ask her for her number. Or escalate, and fuck her.

Author:  Pie Man [ Fri Mar 22, 2013 10:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did i do this right? What should be my next move?

Yeah i agree with you there bro, she was giving me enough ioi's on the dance floor that i could have kissed her but instead chose to see how far i could take it and ruined it for myself-FAIL!

Anyways would it be wise to find her on FB and try again? Or just forget about it and move onto the next babe?

Cheers, Pie Man :)

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