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| Author: | matthew_293 [ Thu Feb 21, 2013 2:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | I'm a big nerd, but somehow i make this hottie laugh..*help* |
So i'm about 6 weeks into my spring semester and i have english once a week. So i've been flirting with this girl in my English class for a bit now. Finally she asks me something that sorta stuck out and made me realize that i should just ask her out to coffee or something. She said the following: "what can you do to your ex boyfriend that makes him mad?" and i was like "umm (thinking to myself, wtf is this?), just be annoying i guess haha" and she said "well what can i do to make him jealous? should i hang around new guys or take pictures hanging out with guys and put it online?" I think she just wanted to tell me she was single, rather then imply that she wants to use someone to get back with her boyfriend. She even said he was an ass and a bunch of other crap. So after class i walked with her to the parking lot and i got held up by a whale in my calc class who wouldn't stop asking me how i thought i did on my test. So after dealing with the whale and sort of walking away from her, i briskly walked up to the hottie from behind(i know creepy) and i called out and then i got closer and i yelled "kim" and she turned around and i was like "so you going home?" and she said yea and then i asked "do you want to maybe get coffee sometime?" and she said yes and said "let me text you right now so you have my number" and then i said "i have your number when we exchanged them earlier in our little peer group" and she was like "ok". So i went home and then i texted her back a few hours later. "hey this is my number!" I didn't want to put smileys just yet, and i want her to wonder who it is, or see if she will just assume its me or ask. I don't know, but she hasn't replied yet haha, and i think my chances are as good as gone if she doesnt reply in the next day or so. So if i do get to have coffee with her, what should i do? I've had coffee with girls before but failed to get it past that stage. And i'd like to improve upon last time. |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Thu Feb 21, 2013 5:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm a big nerd, but somehow i make this hottie laugh..*h |
A girl will say something like that to a guy she wants to go out with or a guy who she thinks is asexual and non-threatening in any way. |
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| Author: | matthew_293 [ Thu Feb 21, 2013 9:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm a big nerd, but somehow i make this hottie laugh..*h |
I hope i'm not asexual, although i'm used to having sex with myself I'm up doing chem homework right now and she still hasn't responded. If she doesnt respond by tomorrow should i even bother to send another message? I honestly don't want to, i mean we flirted, laughed and smiled at each other for a good two hours in class, and i'm not even good at flirting, but it was like second nature with this girl. So i honestly think she has no reason to resist going to coffee with me unless she is a serial flirt, whatever that is |
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| Author: | matthew_293 [ Thu Feb 21, 2013 8:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm a big nerd, but somehow i make this hottie laugh..*h |
Bump. Any advice on how to proceed to her not responding? I really think she was into me lol, she kept seeking approval and would always initiate conversation after a silence, even when i would purposefully ignore her. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Thu Feb 21, 2013 8:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm a big nerd, but somehow i make this hottie laugh..*h |
Dude, if no response after a day or two just open her again with something funny. Ex: "I'm getting you a homeless person for Valentines day! He said he likes nerds!" If she responds it means you're still in the game, and if she does not respond then next her. Peace... |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Fri Feb 22, 2013 1:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm a big nerd, but somehow i make this hottie laugh..*h |
Alright, lets just put all your cards out and see what we have. You say you are a nerd. What do you mean by this? Are you skinny? Fat? Smart? Social outcast? What do you mean? You don't seem socially inept and judging by what you wrote, it seems she enjoys your company. Give us some more background on who you are, who she is, and your social environment. |
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| Author: | matthew_293 [ Fri Feb 22, 2013 3:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm a big nerd, but somehow i make this hottie laugh..*h |
I'm not really socially inept or a nerd. But recently i've been focusing on my classes rather then partying, i've deactivated my facebook and stopped hanging around friends that party and smoke. I pretty much have no social life now, i'll get drunk with my last few good friends like once a month or sometimes even less then that. I spend a lot of time in the library and cafes studying and trying to pass my harder classes lol. I want to major in chemical engineering or maybe mechanical at some point. More about me: I'm twenty, i'm slim, i would say like a swimmers body, just not as much leg mass. I weigh about 125lbs at 5'9" but if i took my shirt off you would see decent proportions in my chest and shoulders, i'm not just a bunch of abs, i actually work hard and have some upper body mass, as light as i am. I dress pretty good, i keep my hair cut short and i wear v-necks or pro combat training shirts cause they are comfortable in florida weather, and i try to keep my eyebrows cleaned up. I wear the stereotypical aqua di gio, but i honestly really like it. She seems to be 18 or 19, i'm 20. I don't know much about her, she told me about leaving her keys in her car and not making it to class, i teased her for being a fool. She talks really quietly sometimes and i'm like "what the hell are you mumbling about?" and she giggles. I mean we just go back and forth all throughout class, maybe i just make the class bearable for her and i am there to pass the time. She is quite good looking, i wouldn't say she is out of my league, but shes right on the edge of being hot and slightly above average and those girls usually have the biggest egos about being hot when they are just a bit above average. So its been an entire day and no text back, all i sent was "hey this is my number!" I wanted to send "hey 'famous' girl, this is my number?" but i didn't want to drop the inside jokes to early and i didn't want to let it go more then two hours without contacting her and giving her my number. I think she may want me to come harder then "hey this is my number!" I can't get to cocky and crazy with the texts cause i will continue to sit next to her for the rest of the semester, and i can always play it cool and just turn the flirting up in class to a more sexual tone. I already have ideas of what i can say thats just corny as hell but funny. i really don't want to get clingy level 10 stalker on this chick either, so i'm cool with just not messaging her. It is a bit of a bother though cause i think i may have screwed myself, because in the parking lot she told me to give me her number she will text me her number right now, and i said you should have my number from before and she was like 'o yea' and then i said i still have your number in my notebook, i'll message you if anything, then i was just like okay i'll see you later i'm going back to the library thanks for all the help, and yea you asked for all the cards so i did type a bit much, so pardon me |
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| Author: | matthew_293 [ Fri Feb 22, 2013 3:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm a big nerd, but somehow i make this hottie laugh..*h |
one last thing, i think i will text her tomorrow at around 6pm or later when i know she will have to be home and not busy, but i want to know if this is any good "Hey 'famous' girl, i still haven't heard from you, just wondering if you were alive" I'm calling her famous, since she told me she was famous because her cousin's cousin was in a disney movie and that makes her famous. then i guess i'm showing that i'm considering her and asking her how she's doing but not in a boring "how are you" type of way and its sorta not to serious and i won't feel like an ass if she doesn't respond and decides to further ignore me. but does this come off as to invasive? if this doesn't work, i'm just going to class on wednesday and pretending like it never happened, and i will just go god-mode flirting on her edit: typing this stuff out really gives me a good game plan haha |
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| Author: | matthew_293 [ Fri Feb 22, 2013 12:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm a big nerd, but somehow i make this hottie laugh..*h |
bump for todays morning crew |
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| Author: | tru3demon [ Fri Feb 22, 2013 10:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm a big nerd, but somehow i make this hottie laugh..*h |
Honestly man, why care so much? Just text her something witty and if it works it works and if it doesn't then it doesn't. There is more than one girl in the world. Abundance my man |
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| Author: | ImNaShitFool [ Sat Feb 23, 2013 12:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm a big nerd, but somehow i make this hottie laugh..*h |
Lol I wanna pat u on the head and tell u to run along She was just making conversation bro Why don't YOU tell HER she's cute & should stop trying to make him jealous & start going on a date with u instead??? |
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| Author: | v00owen [ Sat Feb 23, 2013 2:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I'm a big nerd, but somehow i make this hottie laugh..*h |
How about: "Hey so I've got a hunch I'll be craving for a coffee tomorrow around 6pm, now I'd invite you along but Im not sure if I want the media finding out and spoiling it !" A follow up could be: I would have to revise my Disney know-how, long night ahead of me, I expect you to be looking spectacular to make up for it This is just an example, good or bad, do whatever you wanna do. Good luck |
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