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Trying to communicate with her right away will reinforce your statement that "you love her". Now you look like the needy one and she feels like she has you.
So now you have to find a way to bring her off her pedestal. You could try freezing her out, but she could interpret that as being afraid to talk to her now that she knows you have a thing for her.
So ask yourself some questions: how to bring her down?
You could neg her.
You could be C&F.
You could find a way to DHV, lowering her position relative to you.
In any case, I wouldn't text her, because that could similarly be construed in her eyes as cowardice at this point. If you do text her, it should be a neg.
I tell ya you/re right, telling this girl you have feelings for her is *not* what you should have done. Maybe someone else has better advice to help you pull yourself out.
thanxSo now you have to find a way to bring her off her pedestal. You could try freezing her out, but she could interpret that as being afraid to talk to her now that she knows you have a thing for her.
So ask yourself some questions: how to bring her down?
You could neg her.
You could be C&F.
You could find a way to DHV, lowering her position relative to you.
In any case, I wouldn't text her, because that could similarly be construed in her eyes as cowardice at this point. If you do text her, it should be a neg.
I tell ya you/re right, telling this girl you have feelings for her is *not* what you should have done. Maybe someone else has better advice to help you pull yourself out.
things are good again
hahah
i did C&F on her, normally i would do some dramatic emo text messaging but since i ve done it a lot (they did work though, it kinda works on her mother instincts of caring and loving)
but i dont want to overuse them and being pathetic too much.
so i did C&F, in textmessage. She didnt reply i was like
she must be upset.the reason was because she loved me too, and i didnt textmessage her for a whole week made her feel like i was leaving her in the cold (totally stupid, i mean i nearly lost her i believe)
We made up, i proved her i had been thinking about her every day which was true really, i really love her the most of everyone i know.
she told me sincerely that she thinks about me everyday.
well :p
she also told me that she was pissed today (dunno if was due to me, i do think so partially)
she really loves me. though, im always a bit anxious of losing her. or at least that she will cheat on me
at the same time i still hit on girl, in terms of flirting. and not excessively just so that if she cheats on me, i can find another in no time.
thx for your reply a lot, it contains some useful information. its really like a scheme :p if she does this, then i have 3 ways of negging her ^^ to heal my relationship lol kinda like a doctor. hey the relationship is sick
lets heal it by negging and then showing some care
rofl
hwahw
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