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Author:  pua_god [ Tue Jan 22, 2008 9:54 pm ]
Post subject:  When she catches me looking at her

Hey guys, quick question regarding EC here.

If I'm looking at a girl who I don't know from a distance, and she looks over and seems to catch me staring at her in a non-crowded area, what exactly should I do? Hold EC, right?

In my opinion (which is why I'm asking you, because I'm noob :wink:), wouldn't this freak the girl I'm looking at out? Because in her mind, she catches me staring at her, and even when she looks at me, I'm still staring at her. Wouldn't she think this is an IOI and creep her out for staring at her?

This is what I'm confused about, and I instantly think about it every time a girl catches me looking at her, which results in me becoming nervous.

Thanks. :)

Author:  Valence [ Tue Jan 22, 2008 9:57 pm ]
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When she sees you looking at her. Smile, then walk over to her and talk. Then she will not think you are creepy.

It is an IOI but one you can get around.

Author:  imanewbie [ Wed Jan 23, 2008 1:19 am ]
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When she sees you looking at her.
is blinking a good idea in this scenario?

Author:  Juice24 [ Wed Jan 23, 2008 4:31 am ]
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Lol, blinking.. ive been practicing this lately and losing because that insecure part of myself just looks away, but ive been winning some but geez if i can gather up the courage to just speak to them

Author:  Valence [ Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:50 pm ]
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Be natural.

Yes blink. Have a sincere smile. Not a wide, shit eating grin, but something natural.

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