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| Author: | NoahJoseph [ Tue Nov 27, 2012 3:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Daygame Approach Anxiety |
I've been partying since high school, college clubs and frat parties aren't a problem for me. I can approach random people, have a decent conversation, and sometimes land a kiss close (this usually doesn't lead to anything else, especially if I drink too much). The combination of drunkness and comfort with partying drastically lowers my approach anxiety at night. The only problem is that my approach anxiety is through the roof when I try to daygame. Alcohol and club scenes are a social crutch, I shouldn't need them to start a simple conversation. My question is: how do I bring my drunk not giving a fuck attitude into my daygame? The only mental block I can think of is this: I'm probably afraid of being that "creepy" guy. At a bar, if you seem creepy on an approach, people just think it's because you're drunk. When walking to class, a creepy approach instantly labels you as creepy; there's no intermediary to take the humiliation. Cheers, Noah |
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| Author: | TheKoon [ Tue Nov 27, 2012 5:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Daygame Approach Anxiety |
Just don't give a shit. Don't be scared of rejection. That is the only reason why your scared if because of rejection. Who gives a shit if she rejects your approach. She knows nothing about you she just rejected your approach. Just go in for the kill man thats all I really gotta say. |
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| Author: | Fly_Swatter [ Tue Nov 27, 2012 9:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Daygame Approach Anxiety |
Easy. Just take 4-5 shots of Vodka before heading out. Pretty simple huh? Then you'll be your drunk don't give a shit guy. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Nov 27, 2012 1:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Daygame Approach Anxiety |
Try not to be creepy, but don't worry about it if someone thinks that about you. Pretend like you are drunk and wild when daygaming. Have high energy and act like you don't give a fuck. Show them your ass (figuratively speaking). Let people know you don't give a fuck and even try to get yourself blown out a few times just so you can face rejection head on and get used to it not phasing you. |
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| Author: | NoahJoseph [ Tue Nov 27, 2012 9:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Daygame Approach Anxiety |
Great advice, especially trying to get blown out haha; I guess then it's a win-win, I accomplish one of my goals! Getting drunk before walking to class is also a pretty hilarious idea, at least I'd show myself that it CAN be done! |
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| Author: | hit626 [ Tue Nov 27, 2012 9:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Daygame Approach Anxiety |
It's going to be difficult, but you have to move away from that dependency on alcohol. Try move away from it in the clubs where you feel more comfortable first then try and apply it to your day game. Hopefully you will become comfortable with either one. |
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