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| Author: | Lionheart9999 [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 8:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How should I approach this coworker? |
I'm 24, she is 18 HB 9. She has had issues like anorexia in the past and is always fishing for complements or validation from everyone at work about her body, aka "I am getting so fat" then 30 people will comment on her facebook telling her how hot she is ect. She loves to workout, and I am the most jacked guy at work. When she sees me she goes through my lunch sometimes and steals my health food, and finds me very funny, with the occasional "youre too funny." When I walk into a room she looks at me to say hi and my eyes often meet hers when around, but I sense no real interest here. The other day I told her how I had "already hit that" other chick we work with (and she is hot.) She laughed at this. I walked by her when I was talking to this other girl and she smiles and goes "eww _______ (my name.)" I'm not sure how to approach this because, frankly, I think she might know I am attracted to her. After she asked me who the hottest girl at work is, I said some guys have told me her, and she has said "I wonder what you think" in like a confident way. I said "that is my business, leave it up to imagination" I'll also add, she has a boyfriend now, and he acts like a typical AFC with statements like "you are my everything moon and stars" ect..........so maybe not What kind of facebook message should I give her, or how should I approach her at work? I have been doing some kino like brushing up against her or pushing her a bit, and while she doesnt reciprocate or initiate much, there have been times when she puts her hand on my arm when she laughs at something I say. |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 10:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How should I approach this coworker? |
Your next move is to ask her out. Seriously, it does not matter if she knows you like her. It's only as awkward as you make it out to be. You like her, so what? It's just human nature. You think she's cute. But you're not sold on her. Simple. Have fun. Play with her. But MAKE THE MOVE. "Hey, let's get a drink this week." Say it sincerely whilst looking deep into her eyes. Her answer will tell you how she feels about you. And remember, a no isn't always a no. She may say no, just try again some other time. Persist but don't be needy. Have an abundance mentality. |
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