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| Author: | AudacityOfHope [ Sat Nov 24, 2012 9:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Not Caring |
1.) What attracts women to you? 2.) Why does not caring whether a woman likes you attract her? 3.) Why does negging attract women? 4.) Why does being very nice to a woman not work? |
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| Author: | Don Horneone [ Sat Nov 24, 2012 9:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Not Caring |
This thread is gonna blow up! Quote: 1.) What attracts women to you?
My good looks. Also being willing to push them out of their comfort zone rather than trying to please them. Quote: 2.) Why does not caring whether a woman likes you attract her?
Have you ever walked past sales people/Jehovah's Witnesses/anyone who was trying to sell you something, you thought "oh god, here we go" and then they just ignored you? I fucking hate religion, but these Mormons talked to someone else and walked past me, I was like "hold on, what about me? I believe in Joseph Smith! I want to be saved too!" This isn't just about women, this is about human psychology, disinterest creates interest...Quote: 3.) Why does negging attract women?
In the context of Mystery Method it creates attraction because you appear to be valuing the girl less than her associates (see above answer). You want them more than her so she's like "what the fuck is wrong with me? I want your dick! I can give blowjobs too!" (same psychology). Quote: 4.) Why does being very nice to a woman not work?
See my first answer about pleasing them. Have you ever had someone come up to you who just wanted to please you? Didn't you immediately think "this person wants something" and view them as a creep? Of course you did. Problem solved.
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Sat Nov 24, 2012 10:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Not Caring |
Quote: 1.) What attracts women to you?
1. Attraction quite multi-dimensional, it's more than appearance and it's more than personality.... Apathy is not what makes you attractive.2.) Why does not caring whether a woman likes you attract her? 3.) Why does negging attract women? 4.) Why does being very nice to a woman not work? 2. Those who seek validation do not show a high value.... If you need her validation you don't have a high value, you also aren't showing self-confidence one of if not the most important part of getting good with women is getting good at being you. It's not about apathy but comfort with yourself. 3. Again it isn't about the "neg" it's about you not placing her above you with your body language or words. The neg has nothing to do with the attraction, all it does is it gets rid of her I'm better than you attitude. 4. It's not bad to be nice to a woman, it's bad to be nicer than her. I'm proof nice guys get laid.... guys who don't have a lot of confidence are the ones who don't get laid. You don't have to allow yourself to get stepped on, that is not what being nice is about, it's not about buying drinks or anything else. Peace and Love, Vic |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Sat Nov 24, 2012 11:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Not Caring |
Quote: 1.) What attracts women to you?
That I'm being extremely genuine with them (works especially well on older women) in the sense that they feel that I 'understand' them and it's the two of us against the world in a fun way. . . combined with sexual escalation.
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2.) Why does not caring whether a woman likes you attract her?
Of course I care about whether or not a woman likes me. Everybody does. And whoever denies it is only lying to himself. The difference is that you shouldn't allow your emotions to be absolutely dependent on the girl's opinion of you. This is what shows strength in character and this is what women are attracted to in you. . . As opposed to 'not caring' when you, realistically, care (which only makes you look like a clown).
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3.) Why does negging attract women?
Complicated subject which could take ages to explain. . . Regardless, negging is a risky area that should be avoided in my opinion.Quote:
4.) Why does being very nice to a woman not work?
Who says it doesn't?
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| Author: | skills360 [ Sat Nov 24, 2012 11:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Not Caring |
First This does not belong in the lounge.... What attract women to you? Different women are attracted to different things all women are different... Most attractive qualities are hygiene, humor, leadership, confidence, drive... Why does not caring about a women attracts her? the question is in the wrong context, but human beings like challenge, they do not like things that comes to us easy...This ties to your another question of the typical nice guy who is overcompensating cause he is being nice to be like or to get something in return which is not attractive... Why does neggin attracts women? The idea of negging for what i understand is that the pua approaches and tries to hook up with a girl who is more than him so by negging her you lower her perceive value and to your level or some stupid shit like that which is imo a bunch of crap.... The right way to do the so call negging is just to flirt with push pull, take aways etc... About nice guys they are very unattractive, cause usually they are push over, they manipulate,yes they manipulate cause they are nice cause they want something in return, the do no posses attractive qualities that i previously mentioned, and usually they are super needy and insecure... now there is a different between being nice and a good guys... Most good seducers are good guys with a bad boy edge.... |
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| Author: | AudacityOfHope [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 10:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Not Caring |
How is this breaking the rules???????? It should be in the Lounge. I wanted an experienced opinion and I wanted to start an insightful dialogue, discussion on these topics. Dialgoue, discussion...the purpose of the Lounge. Those are not general questions. Those are philosophical questions that get at the heart of all pick up behaviors and will obviously have differences of opinion. Look at the posts the all differ; thats my evidence there. |
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| Author: | om3n [ Tue Nov 27, 2012 12:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Not Caring |
Quote: 1.) What attracts women to you?
1) Charisma, looks, humor, confidence2.) Why does not caring whether a woman likes you attract her? 3.) Why does negging attract women? 4.) Why does being very nice to a woman not work? 2) Cat string theory, I guess. 3) You're not kissing her ass from the start like the majority does. 4) Because you're kissing her ass from the start. |
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