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| Author: | xTxHxExJxOxKxExRx [ Fri Jan 18, 2008 10:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | the next stage, NEED HELP |
ok guys so i get that girls number ive been chasing for awhile...(i got it by getting her in a good mood, and putting on some light kino) anyways i set up a day we are suppose to go shopping at a mall on saterday in an out of town city, and i was wondering if i should do anything important before, and on that day some questions i have are: -should i invite her best friend? -should i pick her up?, or ask her to drive separate? -should i pay for lunch/drinks (starbucks coffee) etc... -should i move to medium kino (hold hands, hugs, arm around her)??? any tips and pointers would be great, BTW i plan on this to happen anywhere from 12-5 pm because i have band practice...so please give me some advice |
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| Author: | aRdoslav [ Fri Jan 18, 2008 11:40 pm ] |
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You know the point, where you must isolate the target ? I think that`s the point. Don`t invite the friend, just you and her, that`s the isolation. Don`t buy her drinks or other stuff. You know, it`s kind a rule  .And escalating kino is a MUST. It`s very important, that u must escalate kino. About the driving, I guess it`s ok to pick her up. GL, and don`t forget to tell us, what happened !
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| Author: | Divine [ Sat Jan 19, 2008 12:02 am ] |
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Personally, it seems to me that you have already got attraction covered. The first thing I would absolutely not do is invite her best friend. I always hate it if there is a friend sticking around, what if this friend does not like you? She might be giving all kinds of advices about you behind your back you really don't want to know. Besides that, how can you get the girl to be comfortable around and intimate with you when her best friend is watching your every move? In my opinion friends can be an advantage, but in this stage it can be a pain in the ass. About the driving thing, I'd just get an IOI out of her without directly asking what you want to hear. Make her WANT you to drive with her! Solves your problems and gives you a higher value as well! If you pay for everything you may come across kinda needy, like you'd do everything to make her like the Mr. Niceguy in you. That way you're getting too close to the LJBF-zone. Remember you're the winning lottery ticket here! Self-confidently split the bills baby! ("What makes you think I like you that much already?") .Make sure you've got the attraction working, and then, only then, move to medium kino. Just be sure it's the right moment. If she has already, let her kino you a little bit, and then slightly crank up your approach bit by bit, but don't push it. Especially if she isn't kino-ing you! Hope you can use this and works for you! |
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