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| Author: | Jbomb [ Fri Jan 18, 2008 1:18 am ] |
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So I go to school with this girl who I have a thing for. It is complicated situation because I see her everyday, and she knows that she is hot so she has unbelievable self confidence and it seems that she usually goes for older guys. I realize that I should neg her to solve this. My larger problem is that I see her everyday and I am trying to avoid LJBF, but to do this should I also avoid her at times? we are on good terms but I don't think that we are quite in the LJBF zone yet. What should my approach be? I need suggestions! |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Fri Jan 18, 2008 1:26 am ] |
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Welcome to the forum B.T. Do you have ANY contact or rapport with this girl? Basically, in order to stay out of the LJBF zone, you have to build attraction. Kino, and flipping the attraction switches is the way to do that. But, I have no idea what the details are of your situation either. |
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| Author: | Summer [ Fri Jan 18, 2008 1:38 am ] |
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You should first build up the attraction she has for you by using DHV's (demonstrations of higher value); you don't really need her, you've got enough options left! Try not to fall for the SOI's she gives out (Show of interest), this demonstrates that you don't really need her which in a hot chick may seem really weird thus interesting. Try to tease her a bit when for example she asks you something about herself like 'Do you like my new shoes? I just bought them yesterday!" by saying "Yeah, they're okay, I just don't really like the [put some total bullshit here] about them" and then just do like you didn't really cared in the first place by doing something else. I can go on and on with examples, but just try to be something different then all those other guys are that are begging for attention from her. As for your question as to avoid her sometimes; you don't really have to do that, just act naturally around her like you are only with her because you have to be at the moment. It can be fun if she is around you a lot by saying something like "Geez, you again, I know I'm hot, but you really shouldn't start stalking me now - that is just scary". If you found these tips usefull tell me how it went next time |
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| Author: | PrettyBoy41 [ Fri Jan 18, 2008 2:42 am ] |
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she is just like any other girl, just with more bitch shields because she thinks higher of herself then other girls. just be C&F with her, negg her when necessary and dont let her demonstrate domanance around you. build social proof with ppl in the area, DHV and eventually she will just be attracted to you just because you'll be popular. then she'll be yours. |
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| Author: | Summer [ Fri Jan 18, 2008 12:26 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: You should first build up the attraction she has for you by using DMV's (demonstrations of higher value);
Dude I really don't want to be a jerk, but its like the 2nd or 3rd time I saw you do this. And I'm OCD about random stuff, apparently this is one of them. It's DHV. Not DMV. I say this as humbly as possible, I just don't want newbs getting confused with the lingo. And IOI is more commonly used than SOI Won't happen again  Kisess and huggs, Zomer |
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| Author: | TouchUK [ Fri Jan 18, 2008 1:33 pm ] |
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Welcome to the Forum, My advice is not too game her straight away. Why? You said that she's hot and she knows it. You go direct and game her and she'll probably LJBF you faster than you can think. Think about it - you'll just become anither guy showing interest. I really hate to recommend this strategy as I prefer the direct route but sometimes needs Must. What you need to do is build attraction and rapport. How? What you do is that you game her friends and start gaming other girls in her social cirlce whilst building rapport with her. This will cause her to see you in a different light as she will start to wonder what's so good about you that girls are constantly hanging out with you. Her curiousity will cause her to start giving you IOIs like crazy to booast her ego. Don't fall for it - or else you'll just become easy prey. When she starts showing interest, respond by teasing her. It doesn't really matter what you tease with. You aim is to bring her down to Earth. This teasing, if done correctly, will also inadvertly generate attraction. From there, I am sure you know what to do!  Touch |
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| Author: | Jbomb [ Sat Jan 19, 2008 12:48 am ] |
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that sounds like a pretty good idea. So if I am hanging out with her friends and not her she will start to wonder why I'm not giving her attention and make her jealous in a way? that sounds like it could be DHV as well because I'm not like all the other guys who just go straight for her. Thanks for the advice ill see how this works out. |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Sat Jan 19, 2008 2:52 am ] |
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Quote: that sounds like a pretty good idea. So if I am hanging out with her friends and not her she will start to wonder why I'm not giving her attention and make her jealous in a way? that sounds like it could be DHV as well because I'm not like all the other guys who just go straight for her. Thanks for the advice ill see how this works out.
Yep, that's the idea. It's straight MM.
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