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| Author: | Peter Black [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 4:16 am ] |
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ive been having alot of success with my openers and bieng able to spark a conversation. but after a few minits if the conversation i have trouble relating it to a different topic to keep conversation flowing. if im at a party or club ill just excuse my self because i have to get back to my friends but if we are not in a crowded area im screwed. |
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| Author: | Ka [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 4:23 am ] |
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Use routines to fill in the conversational gaps, and control your frame and maintain it so that you control where the convo goes...always take it somewhere that you have plenty to speak about. |
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| Author: | beyondevil [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 4:51 am ] |
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What are some routines that you like to include? Lets say you start with the A1 opener, use a couple of negs. Do the 5 lie game. A DHV what else would you use? |
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| Author: | BlueRed [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 6:26 am ] |
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I get the same problem! there is a ackward silence, then i try to continue it and she looses interest and i look stupid! |
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| Author: | ChrisTOTP [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 10:08 am ] |
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Well, when all else fails, you could always just fake a text message or a phone conversation. Take the moment to check a text and scan through your routines/stories on your phone. Finish up, smile real big, laugh to yourself and then you can stack using the "text" you just got to tell a story. For example... "OMG, my friend just got back with his ex-girlfriend. Blah! He's such a great guy and she is just bad news. Sure, she's gorgeous, but beauty is common. She's always putting him down and walking all over him. I would never let a girl treat me like that. One night we were all out and EVERY time he left to go to the bathroom, she kept getting touchy/feely with me. Like I would actually consider doing ANYTHING with her. That's my FRIEND. I would *never* think of doing something like that. Stupid girl. They think that because they look good they can get away with anything." Ha, got a little carried away there. Good luck! |
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| Author: | AK47 [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 2:20 pm ] |
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dont open with something u cant transition from... |
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| Author: | Peter Black [ Wed Jan 16, 2008 3:28 am ] |
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whats the A1 routine |
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| Author: | Top-ster [ Wed Jan 16, 2008 6:54 am ] |
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Quote: whats the A1 routine
An excuse to get into a set. "Who lies more..."
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| Author: | 3 hands [ Wed Jan 16, 2008 10:53 am ] |
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Use converstational vibing. Every sentence has 2-5 topics to vibe on to. You will just need to learn to notice them. For example: This morning my cat woke me up by jumping on top of me and started playing with my hair. A few topics here: -Her morning -Her cat -Cats -Crappy ways to wake up -C&F, want me to jump on top of you? -Her hair Spend some time with friends and just train yourself to notice all these topics. After you can see them fairly well, you can start to train yourself to use their input to vibe from one of these topics onto a topic that you will choose. |
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