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Author:	Punkyfish [ Mon Jan 14, 2008 7:56 pm ]
Post subject:	Complete and utter newbie! where do we start?
Ok, I've read through quite a bit of what's here but the problem is some of the most basic stuff is even too advanced for me (and I'm sure some other people too). I understand most of the terminology and things but I was hoping someone could help with a few things: Lets say I'm going out with some friends tonight. We're sitting at a table having a drink. In the bar I can see, let's say, 4 women I find reasonably attractive (I'm new to all this so I wouldn't waste my time going for a seriously hot girl until I'm more experienced). I'm a pretty shy guy so normally I wouldn't even approach any of them. I realise that this isn't helping anything so I have every intention of just getting over that problem, but where would I start in this situation? What do I say when I first walk up to where a girl is seated and her and her friends are just staring blankly at me? Hopefully someone could help me out here or at least direct me to a specific part of this site (or others) that deal with this! thanks

Author:	Megastream [ Mon Jan 14, 2008 9:05 pm ]
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Hey,you need to open them,dont walk straight towards them so it doesnt look like you are going to try and find them,walk on an angle and talk to them over your shoulder slightly,then you ask say,hey i need a female opinon on something,and if they say sure, make sure you add a time constraint before you ask.So like i need to get back to my friends in a couple of minutes though..then go who lie more men or women or whatever your opener is,when they respond just open into your routine,Remeber dont be shy,speak with confidence and pride,good luck

Author:	TouchUK [ Mon Jan 14, 2008 9:35 pm ]
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You see a table with 4 attractive women that you want to approach. I advice that you simply observe their behaviour for 2 reasond; a) To see if their boyfirends are near by, b) Identify their level of approahability. Next when you decide to make you approach - make you are relaxed and greet them with a smile . Approach their table dead centre as if they are your friends, you will notice that the girl straight head will make eye contact and may look away. Once at the table, you have two options - out of politeness speak to the one nearest to where you are standing and then gradually draw other girls into the conversation. What I normally is I address the Whole since I'm not sure who will respond first. Once you have started talking, talk for 5 minutes or less and then eject but before ejecting say something like : Nice talking to you but need to catch with my friends. Hopefully we'll catch up later. I was talking to one of my friends whose a natural and he said something itteresting. It doesn't really matter what you say - it all in your Approach. Everything's in your favour since they are fed-up of guys appraching them like pieces of meat or being rude. You are being polite, direct and most of all by ejecting in 5 minutes (false time constraint) you have shown that you value time and are not going to monopolise their time. Your closing remark allows you to return at any time in the night to continue speaking to them hope that helps.

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