PUA Forum :: what to do if she has a boyfriend

ok so this hb 6 i dont realy know her that much shes a friend of a friend,nyway shes bein givin me definate IOIs i talked to her a bit before i knew anytin about pua stuff previously i just wasnt bothered with evan trying to get involved in an other relationship again cause of my previous relationship and they way it ended.but now since discovering pua ive realized my mistakes got over the whole thing(well almost)and im ready to jump back in to the game,so last Friday im waitin for the bus to get to school and talking to some friends,,nyway i look over and what do you know its her walkin over towards the bus stop, so by the time she gets there the bus arrives.we get on the bus start talkin and stuff.so were talking she gives a long list of what shes getin for her birthday one such present involves a holiday to spain so i start talking bout what part of spain basic small talk etc so im about to change the subject when out of nowere she says "ooh i cant wait my boyfriends cumin with me" nyway i keep talkin ok so i did the pretty much afc way of doing things basically interviewing her asking her questions but it is all i could think off(i made sure that i didnt seem bothered by the fact of her bf bein mentioned).she asked me would i get off with her and go to the shop(IOI)? but i cudnt as i didnt want to be late for class course i didnt realy care if i was late i had P.E and trust me i was in now hurry i just didnt want to make myself too available ,she says goodbye and gets off,so anway i found out shes bein in an LTR for nearly a year now, im probably gona see her again tomorow and im just wondering if i should make a move or not.oh yeah shes not in the same school we just so happen to get the same bus.help appreciated

----3> AcE

Author:	3>aceofspade</3 [ Sun Jan 13, 2008 10:42 pm ]
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ok so this hb 6 i dont realy know her that much shes a friend of a friend we talked a bit and shes been given me deffinate ios .previously i wasnt intrested in this girl but i changed my mind.ok it was last friday i saw her on the bus going to school we start talking and stuff and ok so i know she has a bf shes been in an ltr for nearly a year now for deffinate(when i wasnt trna game this girl she mentioned him alot)so she ends up talkin about that shes goin away i ask her were and stuff ok so im about to change the subject when she has to add in"ooh i cant wait,my bfs with me"anway it was like there was a total shift in her behaviour since i started makin out that i had any intrestest in her ok so what do you do if they have a bf im new to all this but, ah i need a plan lol ok so my intentions with her would be just a fling no ltr or anyting of the sort ----3> AcE advice appreciated

Author:	Mr. Perfect [ Sun Jan 13, 2008 11:48 pm ]
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Quote: ok so this hb 6 i dont realy know her that much shes a friend of a friend,nyway shes bein givin me definate IOIs i talked to her a bit before i knew anytin about pua stuff previously i just wasnt bothered with evan trying to get involved in an other relationship again cause of my previous relationship and they way it ended.but now since discovering pua ive realized my mistakes got over the whole thing(well almost)and im ready to jump back in to the game,so last Friday im waitin for the bus to get to school and talking to some friends,,nyway i look over and what do you know its her walkin over towards the bus stop, so by the time she gets there the bus arrives.we get on the bus start talkin and stuff.so were talking she gives a long list of what shes getin for her birthday one such present involves a holiday to spain so i start talking bout what part of spain basic small talk etc so im about to change the subject when out of nowere she says "ooh i cant wait my boyfriends cumin with me" nyway i keep talkin ok so i did the pretty much afc way of doing things basically interviewing her asking her questions but it is all i could think off(i made sure that i didnt seem bothered by the fact of her bf bein mentioned).she asked me would i get off with her and go to the shop(IOI)? but i cudnt as i didnt want to be late for class course i didnt realy care if i was late i had P.E and trust me i was in now hurry i just didnt want to make myself too available ,she says goodbye and gets off,so anway i found out shes bein in an LTR for nearly a year now, im probably gona see her again tomorow and im just wondering if i should make a move or not.oh yeah shes not in the same school we just so happen to get the same bus.help appreciated ----3> AcE well ace..she might have a bf or she might not..if she felt like you were coming onto her..it couldve been a sheild that she was putting up..either that or she has a man and hes just not cutting it..you have to figure out what your intenetions are with her..whether its be friends,relationship and justa fuk buddy while her man is not around..after you decide what your intentions are you could then work your way towards that..possibly testing to see if she really has a man...you have to calibrate it to see where things are..without knowing your kind of swimming to die once you reach land

Author:	3>aceofspade</3 [ Mon Jan 14, 2008 6:17 am ]
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i hope its more understanding now since i edited it(sometimes i like to blab on a bit lol)any helpp appreciated

Author:	Mr. Perfect [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 1:07 am ]
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well she has to want to have a fling with you as well..you would have to go through the a2phase which is female-to-male attraction..once you hit that then and only then can you show her that you have some interest in her but remember she has to qualify herself to be "worthy" of your attraction to her.. and i mean think about it bro..maybe its not that worth it to put stress on a relationship that has been working out just fine...just remember lol karma is a bitch..

Author:	The Wild One [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 3:05 am ]
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I think in this circumstance you could steal her. It's not hard run normal game and just don't worry about the boyfriend.

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Author:	Mr. Perfect [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 9:02 pm ]
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well yea he could do that..but i wasnt sure what the rules to the game was..as far as being a homewreker..its not like he wants an actual relationship with her..just to rip and dip..now if shes down with that..shit go allll out pimp -you have to think..they've been in a relationship for a little while now..usually its not as spicy as it once was in the beginning due to people growing comfortable with each other and other things..

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