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Author:  blinkant [ Mon Jan 07, 2008 12:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Have I missed my chance?
Just need a little bit of advice about a girl I went out with a couple of times from work.
She's known as being a bit loose and is only a HB5 at best, but I can't stop thinking about getting with her.

Thing is we went out about 3 months ago when I was still a AFC. We Went to a bar and I bought her drinks all night trying to get her drunk (she said thats after a couple, she just loses the plot and does anything). After a couple of hours of her telling me how all the other guys in the office hated me, we kissed and cuddled and kissed somemore. It was like this all night and I didn't really know how to move it on so eventually we went our seperate ways.

A few days later, I was going to go out clubbing when she texted me asking if I wanted to see a film and get something to eat. I ditched my mates and after we'd had something to eat, we were all cuddly again like we'd been going out for years. In the cinema, we was making out so much I cant remember what the film was about and things was equally hot in the car after. However, this is where things went wrong. I managed to get her down to her bra but as I went to take it off, she stopped me. Now, I know this was ASD but back then I kept pusing it rather than freezing her out and eventally she went home :(

I kept talking to her at work and over email but everytime I asked her out again, she said she was busy. Then she started to tell me about this amazing guy she met and everytime I saw her, she'd let me know how she was so happy with him. A couple of weeks later, she found out that he already had a girlfriend and so she was single again.

Then over christmas, I got a bit drunk and texted her asking if she would have sex with me for £10 (only cause she'd joked about selling herself and I said I'd only pay £10) and she came back with 'I'm not a hooker'.
Normally, I would of left it at that but I was drunk so I texted her again saying I'd pay £20 and then again saying £30.

After this, she never texted me back and I haven't spoke to her since so does anyone have any suggestions on how to get this one back on my side. Normally, I wouldn't bother but at the moment she's the only one holding me back from having a perfect date to lay ratio.
Author:  JSmooth [ Mon Jan 07, 2008 2:58 pm ]
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Wow, that's some story. Based on the fact you went to far with her, made her feel uncomfortable, and then she took the joke too seriously, I would say you are done. Its unfortunate that things went down that way, but believe me there are others.
Author:  xTxHxExJxOxKxExRx [ Mon Jan 07, 2008 9:42 pm ]
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OMG your done lol..... totally done, no offense but to offer to pay her for sex? lol i know you were drunk but that makes your value skyrocket downwards and she will probably think you might rape her..... id say drop it and go sarging for a bit
Author:  blinkant [ Mon Jan 07, 2008 10:16 pm ]
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lol yeah, I'll prob give it a couple of years :) Prob one of the reasons I wanna give up drink is cause what I end up saying to the oppersite sex... Give me a month and hopefully I'll have the confidence to chat to someone without drink
Author:  Roads [ Mon Jan 07, 2008 10:24 pm ]
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It might've worked if done in person, but via text it's like you're offering to pay for a booty call. You better have some social proof with you the next time you see this girl and run the jealousy plotline or it's game over.
Author:  blinkant [ Thu Jan 10, 2008 10:33 am ]
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Today, this girl said hello to me as she passed me. Can I take this as maybe I still have a chance? and if so, what should I do?
Author:  King. [ Thu Jan 10, 2008 3:47 pm ]
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damn damn damn haha, i think when you got the resistance would have been a perfect time to freeze her out, if i get that kind of resistance i either roll over and face the other way, or get up, turn on the lights, turn off the music and turn on the t.v. or get my computer out and start surfing the internet or something, next thing you know she's back on top of you, in the future stay clear of texting when your drunk, i've fucked up so many good situations because i got on my phone and started texting at the end of the night, after i realized that i was just doing that as a last minute effort to hopefully get a lay my game improved greatly because the next couple nights i went in thinking "King. do you really wanna be going through your phone texting a bunch of girls in a last minute effort to get layed at the end of the night?", "fuck no! mind", "then don't waste time and get out and sarge someone else and come back to her later." haha, oneitis is a bitch it's basically a comfort zone we fall into after we've put so much time into one girl, don't let it hold you back from sarging other girls
Author:  JSmooth [ Thu Jan 10, 2008 4:07 pm ]
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Today, this girl said hello to me as she passed me. Can I take this as maybe I still have a chance? and if so, what should I do?
Dude it's over, she's just being polite! Move on please. :?
Author:  chio [ Fri Jan 11, 2008 11:15 pm ]
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Today, this girl said hello to me as she passed me. Can I take this as maybe I still have a chance? and if so, what should I do?
You obviously have inner game issues that you need to work out.
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