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My first sarge.. How am i doing and where do i go from here
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Author:  dwracing39 [ Mon Dec 31, 2007 5:38 pm ]
Post subject:  My first sarge.. How am i doing and where do i go from here
First of all I wanna say hey to all you PUA’s out there and that this forum is almost too good to be true..lol Ive always had decent luck with women but it was always kind of hit and miss. I stumbled up on this a couple days ago and read up a little and all I can say is wow.. this stuff really does work.

But on to my story. I work for a helicopter service facility as a graphics tech in the paint dept. One of my duties is to provide touch up kits to a certain girl who is a HB8. We have often flirted a little bit but heres the kicker. She has a bf. But she very seldom talks about him. Well Monday morning she emails me wanting a touch up kit and I think to myself.. “lets experiment a little here” so this is straight off my email. You guys read and critique as necessary.

Her-Hey David!
I need a couple of touch up paint kits. One needs to be for 36435, and the other is for 52359. Could you make these up for me today?
Hope things are going well on your side,
V

Me- I can get these kits for you. However, the short notice will not continue to be tolerated…….
;-)

Her-Oh??
Whatcha gonna do about it???
:P

Me-You don’t want to find out… ;-) Just for that im returning your stapler that I brought down for you. My gifts aren’t going to go unappreciated….


Her-Listen, Mr. Thang,
you don’t know who you’re messing with.

I’d hate for you to wake up at your desk and realise you’re glued to the chair….


Me- Dear Miss Thang.

Last time someone tried that they found out it was impossible. When your as hott as I am glue wont ever set… Might wanna try plan B.

(she didn’t reply back for a minute or so…..)

Me again- And Miss Thang is rendered speechless.. Ahh the smell of sweet victory.


Her- Miss Thang is never rendered speechless.
Silence is one of her many strategies.


Me- All are of your comebacks so long? ;-)
That sounds more like a cop out than a strategy anyways. But nice try…lol

Her- Don’t you have a touch up paint kit to go make?
: P

Me- Yeah I do but im trying to get rid of someone who is e-mail harassing me. But as soon as I get her off my back ill get your kits for ya…….. :-)

( I then get her kits and email her back)

Me- Miss Thang, I have the kit for 36435 ready. You can come pick it up whenever is good for you. Ill have the other one before the day is over……
If your nice.


She then comes down to my office and has a big grin on her face. We exchange barbs and flirt around some more. i even get some tiny kino going when i was telling a story about how lightly a car tapped me after work friday after work ( i lightly pushed her shoulder)

So where do I go from here?. like i said there is a bf in the picture but she never mentions him. Thanks guys and keep teaching newbs like me what the game is all about!!
Author:  Valence [ Mon Dec 31, 2007 6:46 pm ]
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Seeing the power of cocky/funny? Girls love it. It works just as well on most other girls.

Word of caution though. You are playing with fire because it is a girl at work.

I know it is easier to game girls that you are familiar with and around all of the time. You need to take the same attitude that you showed her and take it to the streets.

Me, I would keep the same playful attitude with her and find out if she has some hot friends to hook you up with.

Worse case. She breaks up with her boyfriend, he gets really upset, comes down there and makes a huge scene, you get into it, you get fired.

Worse case but it happens.

GAME ON
Author:  dwracing39 [ Mon Dec 31, 2007 7:03 pm ]
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I read ya loud and clear on that one Valence. It was more of an experiment than anything. But yeah once it hit me "hey man this shit actually works!" I guess I got greedy. Shes about to come down here and get the last kit she needed ( i could have gotten them both done at the same time but figured that if i could cause her to have to come down here 2 times instead of just one it would work to my benefit). Most likely, i wont "do" anything becasue of the whole bf/work thing. Ill probably just keep up exactly what ive been doing, maybe really feel out the b/f thing and if it looks like its possible, then i may go for it.

Ive spent thousands on flying, and expensive race cars.. But i do believe ive found my new hobby.....lol
Author:  Ka [ Wed Jan 02, 2008 2:51 am ]
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DW, i dont agree with Val.

Gameing girls at work, that you directly work with is one thing. This of course isnt impossible just risky.

However from the sounds of it if this girl works for the same company she works in a completely different area, so the limited interaction you have at work shouldnt be an issue.

As for girls with boyfriends, think of it this way. Does she have a ring on her finger? Would you stay with someone if something better came along?

Give her that something better and her b/f will disappear. She is purposly not mentioning him because it could hurt the connection she has with you. I say purposely because if you have ever dated someone for even a few months its hard not to mention them when talking about yourself to others.

Id say keep it up, you have a very good C&F frame going. If you have a group of friends you go out with on a regualr basis and are comfortable with them, make plans with them to go out some night, then invite her along. Make it obvious that your going with some people and she is invited to meet up with you there.

Another perspective can be this, I have 3 girls in my life at this point. Girls i have little or no intrest in, girls who are friends and i may or may not be intrested in, and girls im definatly intrested in.

Regardless of what category i put them in i game them all. Now the gameing is done a little differently, but all in all im still gameing them. For girls i have no intrest in, i experiment with them, try new routines, and even go over board with C&F and negs to see reactions.

For girls who are friends, i game them in much the same way as girls i dont like, except i do not push things too far with them as i dont want to lose them. I COULD do without them, but id rather not.

Now with these first 2 groups i generally deflate any kind of attraction they garner for me by makeing LJBF type statements with them. Also by not amping up kino to a more sensual vipe and not showing/displaying any sexual intrest in them, i reduce/eliminate the chances of them expecting me to "make a move".

For the 3rd group, girls who i like and want to be involved with, I use tried and true material and frames. I seldom use new stuff here unless im confident that it worked well while i "tested" it. This group gets gamed in a wholistic sense in that i dunt pull any punches, i amp kino, attraction, comfort etc. I carry over my attitude with the other groups of girls here and "act" like i dont care.

So in short, decide where you want this women in your life. If you are intrested in her being a friend, or more...then game and pull the trigger, amp things up.

If your not intrested in this, or if circumstances really dont permit you to move on with her (if you think you could lose your job), then just use her as practise...
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