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Author:  spd [ Sat Dec 29, 2007 1:23 pm ]
Post subject:  new year problem
what do i do. i cannot go out and meet girls because i do not have any friends. some new years i drink alcohol by myself to avoid any sadness although usually it makes me more sad about an unhappy year etc. i am nervous about new years i think it will be like every other ive had, is there anything i can do which will not involve any humiliation? keep in mind i would rather stay at home again than risk humiliation or shame. if i go out alone people who know me may see me going out alone like a desperate reject, which will be humiliating and shameful and i would rather be alone than that. if i make friends now and try and go out with them that is needy and desperate. the alternative is to stay at home and have to listen to the fireworks outside and know people are likely having sex. yes maybe you think i am being dramatic and emo, but new year has always been a terrible time for me.

to make matters worse i have exams a few days into January.
Author:  3 hands [ Sat Dec 29, 2007 1:37 pm ]
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Throw away the alcohol, it's bad for you. Go to your family and have some fun there. It's too late to get tickets for most good places and new year isn't the time to go out alone. You should try thursdays those are student days for going out and it's totally acceptable to be alone at those and just go around and talk to people.
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if i make friends now and try and go out with them that is needy and desperate.
That's basicly how it works. though the thing is to not seem needy, there are lots of topics on this forum that can help you with that aspect of yourself.
Author:  spd [ Sat Dec 29, 2007 1:50 pm ]
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Throw away the alcohol, it's bad for you. Go to your family and have some fun there. It's too late to get tickets for most good places and new year isn't the time to go out alone. You should try thursdays those are student days for going out and it's totally acceptable to be alone at those and just go around and talk to people.
Quote:
if i make friends now and try and go out with them that is needy and desperate.
That's basicly how it works. though the thing is to not seem needy, there are lots of topics on this forum that can help you with that aspect of yourself.
i do not have fun with my family, i want girls not my family. the only family i know is my parents by the way. i do not want another depressing new years i do not like to spend time with my parents that will just depress me more and i do not enjoy it. the problem is new year it makes me feel depressed. you said throw away the alcohol but yet you gave me no solution. your post did not help.
Author:  chio [ Sat Dec 29, 2007 2:22 pm ]
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Just go out and meet a group of people, say you lost your friends and are looking to enjoy the evening. That is what Style does when he doesn't go out with any friends.
Author:  jesse.james [ Sat Dec 29, 2007 5:44 pm ]
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You really got to be proactive about this man. girls dont fall from the sky onto your lap. Im not sure what immediate alternatives you have but well, you got a new years resolution in hand :)
Author:  Valence [ Sat Dec 29, 2007 6:11 pm ]
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Most of us have been there. It is a little late to find someone to hang out with on New Years.

But that does not mean that you are going to drink your sorrow away. Drinking only makes it worse.

It sounds like a perfect opportunity to turn your life around.

Where do you live? Come hang out with me....... Beyond that, it is time to change your life.

Things are not just going to happen. Everything in life takes work and determination.

Are you ready to change? Are you ready to put in the effort that it is going to take?

If you are, PM me and we will talk about how we are going to do it.
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