Ok, here's a concept I've been thinking about for quite a long time. The only problem is coming up with a proper way to do this. Here is how it started. It's quite a long story, but bear with me... you WILL like the idea!
This HB has asked me to teach her how to play guitar, which I was more than happy to if I could find the time.
A while ago I told her I had the most amazing gift for her.
"Do you remember when you were little, around christmass time, all the presents stacked up under the christmass tree. You know some of them are for you but you don't have a clue on what they are. Do you remember that feeling of not knowing what they are. It makes it impossible for you to sleep because you ARE so EXCITED and you are constantly FANTASIZING about them. Well, it's the same kind of present."
She went completely crazy and she's begging me to give it to her or at least give her some clues on what it can be. Constantly.
I know that the kid/present story isn't completely right, but you get the idea. (each time you say 'present' point at yourself,...). I'm a complete newbie at NLP, so feel free to give me pointers or to improve the story.
So you're probably wondering what this gift is, right? If I did it properly you should be. To be honest I didn't have a gift, which made me feel a bit bad because she gets so excited about it every time I see her. I came up with the perfect sollution: a guitarpick worth less than 50cent! She's going to be so dissapointed when she finds out, haha. But here's the thing. I would simply tell her that it's not a regular guitar pick and let her in on what I want to do: I want to try to anchor the state of arousal to the guitar pick. Everytime she would use it she would think about me the way she should be thinking about me.
So here is how I would do it:
Make her hold the guitarpick and let her rub it gently (the guitar pick, afc!) while I kiss her. I would then stop and ask her what she feels, where she feels it, ask her to multiply that feeling by 10 and describe what she feels now and where. All the time still rubbing the pick. Then I would ask her to pretend that the pick is a sponge than can absorb feelings and to place it on the place where she's feeling the arousal. Then kiss her again and voila... a freshly baked arousal inducing guitar pick!
I've also been thinking to do the same with sounds (EXACTLY like Pavlov!). Like if she would strum a certain chord I would try to anchor the specific sound to arousal/whatever.
If you can pull this off you can make the gifts out of a simple piece of paper and they'll think you're God. You could even do it with a proper gift, although you should know exactly when to give those. Even if it doesn't work the way I want it to work she'll at least remember 'that crazy guy who tried to anchor arousal to this guitar pick he gave me'
I know this is quite advanced and I don't really have a clue what I'm doing besides putting together bits and pieces I picked up from RJ. Feel free to comment.