Okay, long story short, I went to homecoming with this girl a few months back, got LJBF'd and moved on. I still hung out with her at school and flirted mercilessly with her, using tons of coquettish push pull techniques driving her to the point where she asked my friend if I didn't like her, lol. Anyway, I've been texting her more and more, we're going to a concert tomorrow (along with some other people) and, well, here's the text convo:
Me: So, I've decided that I'm not driving tomorrow
HB8: So then you're not going?
Me: No I'm going, I'm just not driving, so could I catch a ride with you?
HB8:Yes but i will make you drive down here
(to her house)Me: I was actually hoping you'd be my designated driver, lol. Don't worry, I tip well.
HB8: Your not getting drunk
Me: Lol, okay mom. I won't drink if it makes you uncomfortable.
HB8: Umm there will never be drinking around me. D'accord?
Me:You're right. You'd probably take advantage of me or something.
HB8: Yes you know how I roll. . . I enjoy drunk guys oh so much that could be why I dont date guys who get drunk often (I've been know to party from time to time, lol)
She wasn't insulting me or anything, because we still texted for a long time after this about french class, and our fake roll-playing divorce, so I didn't piss her off; I know it sounds that way from only this part of our texts.
Okay, is this an IOD or an IOI? I know, you're probably thinking a clear IOD right? Well, I did too. Until I got to thinking (that can't be good, lol). I think that she might actually like me now, and is kind of trying to mold me into her ideal boyfriend. I don't really drink at all, except at parties, but she must think I get wasted all the time or something and is telling me to change or else I have no chance with her. She is one of those girls that never does anything wrong, and when I said to her one time, "Oh it's not like your completely innocent" she replied "Really? I believe I reserve the right to act the way I do. I'm pretty damn innocent". She constantly gives me IOI's and when we played mystery's question game, she immediately steered it into sexually oriented questions, I didn't have to do any work! (Her first question was if I was a virgin. She obviously didn't want me to use it on her b/c she's not from what I've heard from her friends). Alright, so I may be over-analyzing this, but let me know what you think ASAP because the concert is this Saturday and I want to know if I should leave her be, or pursue this a bit. Please, no responses about how I have oneitis, I used to but I have moved on. Now thats not to say I wouldn't see where things would go if she likes me, so let me know what you think about this.
Thanks in advance!
