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Author:  gyarados [ Tue Dec 11, 2007 12:33 pm ]
Post subject:  girlfriend picking fights, starting arguments
My ex did this to me, and it destroyed me. :lol:

HB: are you bored of me yet
ME: :? what?! :?
HB: you seem to be bored, what's wrong?
ME: erm nothing :?
HB: Well why are you being like this then?
ME: I'm not being like anything :?
HB: Yeah you are, just tell me, do you want me or not? :(
ME: Yeah of course I want you
HB: Well whats the problem then
ME: there isn't one
HB: Well obviously there is
ME: .....
HB: see, cant you answer, whats the fucking problem
ME: What are you on about?
HB: AAARGGGH, why cant you ever tell me whats in your head just say it
ME: Theres nothing in my head
HB: SO WHY ARE YOU BEING LIKE THIS I CAN TELL THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WHAT IS IT
ME: like what? you have to tell me what I'm being like because I dont actually know what you are talking about
HB: YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE BEING LIKE, JUST TELL ME WHY. DONT YOU LIKE ME
ME: not at the moment
HB: WHY NOT
ME: Because you are being like this
HB: WELL ITS YOUR FAULT
ME: hows it my fault
HB: BECAUSE YOUR THE ONE WHO STARTED THIS WHOLE ARGUMENT
ME: I didn't start any argument
HB: BLAH BLAH BLAH......
ME: I'm taking you home now...
HB: YADA YADA YADA (doesn't get out of car)

Then the girl tries to bore me to death and annoy me, and she just makes herself more and more angrier whatever the answers to the questions are.

I try and call them out on it but if they are clever then I seem to have no hope.

Advice? It's like a whole bunch of shit-tests.

One time I just gave up as I was fed up of hearing it and said "yes, I'm sorry, I'm trying to impress you by being somerthing that I'm not, and I'm not the big man that I make out I am, and I don't know how to treat a girl right, you deserve something better" Then she sat there all glum and said "come back when you learn how to treat your girlfriend properly" and slammed my car door and stormed off with her head held high. :twisted:

Silly little bitch

(I tried t be as AFC as possible so she would stop chasing me and didn't care if her attraction lowered or not)

But it made me feel so small and destroyed my self-esteem.

What should I have done? I know when It's going to happen, It's always when the girl asks "What's wrong?" when something isn't wrong or "why are you ignoring me?" when your not ignoring her.

Then one of the girls friemds sees that theres been an argument and joins in, and then her mother :lol: then you have a crowd of girls shouting at you like WW3 breaks lose :roll:
Author:  mozyFresh [ Wed Dec 12, 2007 4:19 am ]
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Tricky one. You could just have come up with some excuse to avoid the argument like your just feeling abit ill thats all, or you got things on your mind. Women love attention and maybe she was'nt getting the level of attention she wanted and so she kicked off. Maybe she's just a phscho? I would have tried taking her somewhere else straight away (change of place ' change of mood) and if she was still acting like a stupid bitch after all efforts to put her right, then just tell her to fuck off and ditch her
Author:  PrettyBoy41 [ Wed Dec 12, 2007 7:15 am ]
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i hate those crazy bitches. iv been with girls like that. drove me fucking mad. till i began to just laugh at them. it never lasted long after that lol.
Author:  System_Rejected [ Wed Dec 12, 2007 7:58 am ]
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I say the safest way is if you cut the thread as soon as it comes up and distract her with a joke or DHV routine keep her happy for a few mins then see if you can even get laid for it.

I forgot who said it but one of the gurus it was along the lines of women are more emotion based then logic you can trigger a happy emotion then all logic goes out the door.

so I say you should do somthing like this if it comes up again

hb - are you bored with me?
pua - No, ( with a strong definiate tone) (then without waiting for a response)
- hey did you know ( run into few stacked DHV routines that has to be funny )

hb - blah blah (getting happy)

pua - your smile is so beautiful ( kino, kino, kino,) I am trying so hard to not kiss you right now .. ( make out , get sex if possible)


prevention is much easier then damage control so try to cut all bad threads as soon as possible
Author:  Numen [ Wed Dec 12, 2007 7:27 pm ]
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Quote:
ME: Theres nothing in my head
you weren't lying here were you?

to answer your question, you made a mistake of answering no when she asked if you still like her.

there's a few ways to stop it right now.. many girls want a guy who can keep them in line from their girly bullshit. So a few things to get them to stop and take control are the following
"you're having an existential breakdown. what's really bothering you?"
"this is completely unnecessary, you know i like you but this your insecurity about this is only causing arguments"

You can also change the focus from you to her.. but don't redirect the questions she asks you to her like "do you like me" never answer with "what do you think" this is the equivalent or worse of the original question
Author:  ej1elliot [ Fri Apr 04, 2008 11:33 am ]
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"No, but I'll let you know when I am"

should trigger her to say something like "oh but your going to get bored of me?"

"Nah, I'm just kidding :)" then give her a hug...

If you feel like it you can throw in something like "and by the way I have something for you later" then give her it's the surprise routine...

Makes it seem like you have opened the question as a joke and that you are closing it and are throwing it in a totally different direction.

(Thats assuming you would want her if she wasnt so argumentative)
-Elliot-
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