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What's this thing called? I think its anti-slut defense
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Author:  gyarados [ Tue Dec 11, 2007 12:12 pm ]
Post subject:  What's this thing called? I think its anti-slut defense
I few girls I met in the last few months have told me stories of how guys have used them or done things in the past, and it seems that's what they wanted me to do to them or something.

eg.

"Guys always get bored of me"...."are you bored of me yet"
"Guys just use me for sex then leave"
"So are you going to just use me then ignore me for a couple of months again"

Like they are trying to put it into my head that I am going to do that, and gives me the impression that they want me to do it. Just so they can push the blame onto me? :twisted:

I have called them up on this and got surprising reactions like the look of being "caught out"

HB: So you use me for sex again then and you going to ignore me again for a few months? :roll:
ME: What? no... :?
.....
ME: Wait a minute (wakes up to reality), How do I know that.... you're not the one... using ME for sex :?
HB: (red face, cheesy witch-like smile to hide the embarassment of being caught out)
Me: :roll: .... after all of that.... you have the cheek to try and make me look bad, when really, you are being a total hypocrite.
I leave shortly afterwards. I couldn't even look her in the eye
Author:  JSmooth [ Tue Dec 11, 2007 1:23 pm ]
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Yeah this is typical Anti-Slut Defense in action! Mostly you get this when there isn't enough comfort building before moving to seduction phase. They just want to know that you are going to be around. Forget the idea of contraceptives Condoms, Pills, Patches, etc. In the old days, if you fucked her and she got pregnant, then you left, she was completely fucked. In a small community she was almost outcast!

Now fast forward to today's society! It's not completely like that anymore, hell there are a lot of single mothers. It's a hard thing to do on their own, not much easier now than it was then. So if something happens, she's fucked! So she has to think you're going to be around. This is why comfort building is important. You should be spending around 7 hours total in this phase alone.

Sometimes, you still get this Anti-Slut defense and LMR. She's telling you you're going to leave her after sex, because believe it or not she sees through your game. She knows better, but she's going to let you do this. The hitch is, in her mind she's tell herself she should know better, and this is also for the big I told you so, later. So break through it, keep the kino going, if she says we shouldn't be doing this....Agree, and keep going. Unless she says NO keep going.
Author:  gyarados [ Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:07 pm ]
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lol thanks for your advice although I forgot to mention one little thing...

the thing is.....

She did all this AFTER having sex :?
Author:  JSmooth [ Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:10 pm ]
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Then it sounds like you need to build more comfort before proceeding to seduction.
Author:  System_Rejected [ Wed Dec 12, 2007 8:21 am ]
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I agree that the Comfort levels should be built up but I say that it’s more of that she her ASD kicked in... After sex

she's doing this after sex means she had enough comfort with you to skip LMR, and have sex but it's really the ASD at work here token resistance to appear that she isn't a slut.. And she wants deniability that it was you that made all this happen not her, and even I encourage you say you made it happen instead of calling her on it even if it’s true, that’s because it makes her feel not like a slut and it shows you are the one in control (alpha-male) and you are not like other guys that made her feel like a slut.
Author:  Numen [ Wed Dec 12, 2007 7:20 pm ]
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from experience the best line to give when she asks that and you've built the comfort is "Am I like other guys?" a girl wants to feel special so she'll almost always say no. then she can't give you any more shit. or you can be an ass and tell her you'll answer that if she makes you breakfast in the morning which gets a hilarious response

chicks hate being called out on their games/faults. This wasn't anti-slut defense because it was after.. it's more what I call buyers remorse where after you buy your expensive big screen TV and have so much fun with it you second guess whether you really should have bought it despite how much fun it was
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