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| Author: | future15 [ Mon Dec 10, 2007 4:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | High School.Advice needed |
I have been a member of this forum for a little while now,but I'm still new to pickup.I am a sophomore in high school,and I've never had a date.Through the years I have attracted a few girls to me,but they always end up losing interest in me because I never show interest in them.Another problem I have is talking to girls I don't know.I can make eye contact with anybody,and I don't have low self-esteem,but I don't want to say anything thing stupid and make an ass of myself.I guess you can say that I have a fear of rejection.Any advice is appreciated. |
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| Author: | bigdane691 [ Mon Dec 10, 2007 3:14 pm ] |
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talk more to everybody and eyecontact and a smile r a must just relax and talk to everybody until your comfortable with it. then start gradually moving up practice makes perfect |
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| Author: | raycasanova [ Mon Dec 10, 2007 3:22 pm ] |
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Just remember that while you're stuck with these kids for the next two years of your life, you'll probably never see them again after highschool. Theres no reason for you to be afraid of rejection. Everyone is rejected at one point in their lives, it's better to learn how to deal with rejection now then to be trying to learn it later on in life. You're lucky to know about pick up at 15, I learned about it at 17 when I came across fastseduction, however I dismissed it and didn't think I needed help with my game since I was doing well already. If your problem is being shy, I suggest joining a few clubs or doing some sports. You need to be more outgoing, not only is this good for self esteem and meeting people. But highschool is all about popularity/social proof, the more you have the better. |
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| Author: | future15 [ Tue Dec 11, 2007 3:14 am ] |
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I wrestle and play football,so I'm definently more outgoing than I was 2 years ago in middle school where I wouldn't even talk to my teammates.I am comfortable around my friends/teammates,it's just when I have to talk to someone new or a girll talks to me first,I feel like I'm caught off guard and have nothing to say. |
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| Author: | Incubus [ Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:42 am ] |
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I am a sophmore also. If you want to succeed in High school you gotta be majorly outgoing, have style, and have a good rep, at least, from what I have observed, thats the basics. I had your problem of being shy back in middle school but i flipped a switch in highschool and never looked back. You just got to have confidence in yourself, if you are confident in yourself you will be fine when meeting new girls. If your looking for less of a challenge go for freshman.... They will do anything to get with a older guy, just be careful because they can get really attatched... |
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| Author: | Paetar [ Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:50 pm ] |
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Hey guys. Don't want to advertise here, but I have a post set up just for HS sarging; on paetars-not-only-high-school-tips-regul ... 9c82e576d0 There you should find anything you need, and if you still don't get something, don't hesitate to ask. PLUS; For not-caring about PU, you have to know - and be sure - that you have friends that will NEVER let you down, no matter what would you do. Girls come and go. In HS it is tough, I know. Just SEE YOURSELF AS THE PRIZE - you are smart, funny, interesting, popular and no matter how good she is, you DESERVE SOMEONE BETTER. But why not have fun along the way? (Read in Real World Seduction by Swinggcat). After all, in college (which will be in a few years) you will finally be ready - and girls will be ready - to use Mystery Method well, do shitload of cold approaches and eventually become a mPUA. So, now when you are sure of your future in PUA, you can relax and enjoy girls in HS. Carpe Diem. |
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| Author: | mozyFresh [ Wed Dec 12, 2007 3:07 am ] |
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Try making friends with girls, after all you can never have too many friends (well thats not true but you know what i mean). If you are hanging with girls on the daily and get used to socialising with them it will help. It will better game trust me, most my friends are female and i feel more comftable chatting to women than i do men, so when i talk to girls i dont think shit she's a girl, i just see her as a person, you get me? Plus it will give you a better understanding of what women are like. |
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| Author: | mozyFresh [ Wed Dec 12, 2007 3:16 am ] |
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But if you do start dating, let it be known early on that these girls are only friends and nothing more. Otherwise they will think your a player and lose intrest. I've had it happen to me before, they say 'you never told me you had a girlfriend' and im like 'i dont' and then they fuck off. After all it is so easy to get friended. So go for a nice girl you aint mad on and even if you dont get her you just made a new friend. And then you will get to meet her friends and so on. Your in school its easy |
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