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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 4:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | the truth of attraction |
theory... in order for a female to allow herself to be attracted to a male, she needs one of the following two things: 1. an emotional connection, or 2. the prospect of an emotional connection in many ways, #2 is better, because it poses a challenge. so the eventual payoff is not only power, but power + ego boost...for the conquest! so, let's define "emotional connection"....shall we? an emotional connection comes from "trust"...she needs you to believe certain things about her. certain things that are affirming and warm-tingly to think about. for instance: 1. she is a good girl. 2. she is trustworthy. 3. she is honest. 4. she is wife material. blah-blah-blah those thoughts are "affirming" for her. when you think those things, and she sees it reflected in your eyes, it makes her happy. (whether they are true or not, this is dopamine at its best) so, let's define trust (within the context above) trust is NOT: simply being okay with whatever she does and not caring. no that is actually "permissiveness". trust IS: blindly believing everything she says, and does, and actually things she hasn't even said or done, just general notions, images of her as the virgin mary, as a mother, as other idealic roles. but it's not enough to believe those things. you must NEED those things. you must be dependent. so, you see, attraction is based on emotional investment which comes from trust which is defined as being dependent on your expectations of another person. what does this all come down to? POWER "power" (they say) is the ultimate aphrodesiac. of course it is. when a female can just wiggle her tailfeathers, flash a smile, and look a guy in the eyes and he suddenly begins to stumble and drool and build notions about her character in his mind...that must be a HUGE thrill for a female. it's power...plain and simple. the problem is... once you build that "emotional attachment", which to her is "attractive", because it is rooted in "power", she will inherently abuse it, because you have devalued yourself and shown yourself as a fool for believing things that you didn't know to be true and for having notions that were founding in idealistic fantasies. the end? you sit home and cry. she rides strange cock. you cry harder. rinse, wash, repeat MY DILEMMA: is that my IQ is too fucking high and i see all these things and solve them much like i solve an algebra problem. it's so much work to "fake" that emotional connection (to get the attraction > to get the pussy). i wish i could hypnotize myself into not knowing these things and understanding them so well. |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 4:34 am ] |
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the missing link to it all: female attraction is rooted in two things: 1. finding an impregnator, and 2. finding a provider BEFORE you give away your "power" as described above, you are perceived as IMPREGNATOR. AFTER you give away your "power" as described above, you are quickly ushered into your new position as PROVIDER. either way, it truly is a trap. The Ol' Ball and Chain |
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 1:53 pm ] |
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100 % correct .. driven by instincts... It's better to trust woman a 100 %.. im not telling her to give you your bank account..Trusting someone does improve your game you become more unstiffled in a womans presence... stop worrying about shit because life is too short. anyway it's true about getting devalued once you got a emotional connection.. but i think that's the woman just wanting you to be the bad-boy impregnator again. All woman try to seek men who can dominate them... i totally detached myself from it.. most guys give permission , but they do not trust her. when i give someone permission i just withdraw - i mean whatever - i just stop investing at that point... maybe i fuck her maybe not. lol just read my shit i wrote lately.. believe me you are better off with a sex relationship with a HUGE WHORE who is totally sane .... instead of some bullshit romantic me versus you relationship girl who is psychotic... i had retarded relationships with alot of so called '' relationship '' material woman...but right now i rather have sex relationships -the type where you see eachother once every week ( or 2 ) The shit you are talking about it just the hardest thing to absorb becasue it doesn't make logical sense , it's all evolutionary and instinctive behaviour. Nobody wants to hear about it because they don't want to think that way about their mom , sister , GF or wife. PUA guys don't talk about it because it's to dense , to theoretic and too disgusting to read about. I stopped caring about it... who the fuck cares who fucks who.. just don't be a dickhead and admit that woman sleep with many men and it's ok. i have the same thing .. i can easily place the whole pickup ,social dynamic , sex psychology together and fully understand it - it's just better not to do it...it's better to enjoy the experience and being around woman.. relationships will end... just admit it to yourself the first day when you meet someone... I thought i was in love like 8 times.. but everytime i found out i was not.. i turned out to be a instinctive , value , psychological , sex , control thingy... i have never been in love in a relationship. Love is something which is you and it's not created by someone else .. you cannot fall in love with someone .. it's just hollywood bullshit. You can make yourself fall in love with someone... i would say just accept people for who they are.. lately im evolving.. nowadays i don't care about relationships - yes i like them... but getting attached to me ruins the whole thing of unconditional love... i rather have a fuckbuddy who i really fuck , giving her unconditional love ( not wanting a relationship ) once every 1 or 2 weeks instead of some whack business deal. Lets face it... once you get attached your ego gets in play and everything changes... stop caring about relationships.. just meet as many woman as you can , fuck as many as you can and just try to maintain a mature perspective about it. Life is too short... just look at guys who get into relationships - once it ends they are fucked and they cannot even meet other woman.. just have fun lol Quote: MY DILEMMA: is that my IQ is too fucking high and i see all these things and solve them much like i solve an algebra problem. it's so much work to "fake" that emotional connection (to get the attraction > to get the pussy). i wish i could hypnotize myself into not knowing these things and understanding them so well. i think you need to use alot of drugs .. go out .. be a dick and jump on every girl you can find lol... look you are just looking to reality , your ideas are part of the problem...i think you will not find a woman who can live with you...i have the same ... thingy ... you are too smart.. socially you can look through people. I cannot find a woman who can match my level of dominance in a long term relationship... it's really true and i think you have the same issue... Aside from all of this shit i also can sense if people are ok or sincere, call it the sixth sense i don't know - you just develop it when you deal with alot of woman. i can honestly say it are your paradimes and trust issues regarding your past .. im serious..aside you from being a cool guy i think you still need to deal with some shit... Because you and i know we are almost the same regarding the way we think... yes woman cannot be trusted , i agree but you cannot create glas walls between the internal and external. You are looking too external even tho you are right |
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 1:59 pm ] |
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lol by the way i fell in love with this song [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ULZvlbwKgP8[/youtube] |
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