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Author:  MacReady [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 12:58 am ]
Post subject:  avoiding LTRs without messing with girls heads
I need some rules of thumb on this - yeah I know I need to be alpha and do whatever the fuck I want or whatever, but I don't want to be that guy who comes into other people's lives to shit on them.

There's lots of girls I want to fuck, but I worry about dating with intending to fuck her, and getting drawn into a relationship and then regretting that I settled for a chick who looks decent but not gorgeous (thereby accepting failure).

I'm thinking I need to date girls, working on being sexually aggressive enough with them to fuck them after the first couple, then back off and explain that I'm just dating right now, not looking for anything serious.

I think I damaged the previous chick a bit, and I saw this new girl - really sweet chick and I don't want to fuck her head.
Author:  motownsoul [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 1:07 am ]
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let it be known from the start, is my opinion, of the best way to handle it.

If you both know, and understand, from the start of the relationship, that you are NOT interested in LTR....then thats that..Be honest, and open is the only way to not "shit on people's lives" in this aspect.......of course that's my opinion.
Author:  bansario [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 1:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: avoiding LTRs without messing with girls heads
Quote:
I need some rules of thumb on this - yeah I know I need to be alpha and do whatever the fuck I want or whatever, but I don't want to be that guy who comes into other people's lives to shit on them.

There's lots of girls I want to fuck, but I worry about dating with intending to fuck her, and getting drawn into a relationship and then regretting that I settled for a chick who looks decent but not gorgeous (thereby accepting failure).

I'm thinking I need to date girls, working on being sexually aggressive enough with them to fuck them after the first couple, then back off and explain that I'm just dating right now, not looking for anything serious.

I think I damaged the previous chick a bit, and I saw this new girl - really sweet chick and I don't want to fuck her head.
Instead of fucking and then telling them you don't want anything serious, why don't you just do it the other way around?

In reality, you don't have to tell a woman you are only looking for sex. If you project that frame good enough, she'll be able to pick it up on her own.

Rules of thumb:

1. Do not spend too much time talking on the phone. Same applies for texting.

2. Do not be scared of cursing. Keep your manners, but dont mind cursing here and there.

3. Try to meet them in person whenever possible. When you're not together, keep your distance.

4. If you spend some days without talking, act as if nothing has happened. Nothing needy or "I missed you" or whatever you can think of.

5. Do not be afraid of escalating quick. Show them you make things happen fast without following the dating patterns. If they're ok, that's your green light. ;)

Hope it helps.
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