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this girl (probably a solid 9 maybe 10) had texted me when my phone died and we were both at at the same bar. I never saw her that night but she initiated the text, when I had never given her my number. the conversation went like this
girl-HIII ITS ___
me- haha (girls name)?
girl- haha yes!
me- i like the enthusiasm on the text last night hahaha whats up for the day
girl- haha (the bar we were at) excites me i guess but just hanging out today
me- i will definitely be going to the bars at some point today, you should come
girl- Fun! But i'm headed to the mountains with some friends for the day otherwise i would!
me- haha no worries, i expect a text in all caps sometime soon though
girl-haha okayy
...aaaand im stuck, any suggestions?
I don't really see anything bad about this. She initiated, which means she's somehow interested or at least curious about you, and you went for it. Not sure about the last part asking her to text you again. She already texted you first, so now it's your turn not only to show some interest, but also, to show confidence.girl-HIII ITS ___
me- haha (girls name)?
girl- haha yes!
me- i like the enthusiasm on the text last night hahaha whats up for the day
girl- haha (the bar we were at) excites me i guess but just hanging out today
me- i will definitely be going to the bars at some point today, you should come
girl- Fun! But i'm headed to the mountains with some friends for the day otherwise i would!
me- haha no worries, i expect a text in all caps sometime soon though
girl-haha okayy
...aaaand im stuck, any suggestions?
Next time, don't ask for a woman to text/call you unless you are at a point where there's enough comfort/attraction already built.
The next move should be you texting her. No invitations, nothing fancy, just a fun text conversation to see how she's doing and all that.
