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| Author: | TheGillz [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 3:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Enjoy the chase more than anything else |
Yep, I enjoy the chase and the flirting part more than anything else in the game. However I am sexually attracted to these girls and I know after I hook up with them I will have nothing else to look forward to. Does anyone else experience this? I want to maintain a super flirty "relationship" with a girl and hook up with them, but after that hook up the flirting goes away since I reached my goal. How would one keep that sexual tension there after a hook up? |
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| Author: | motownsoul [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 3:22 am ] |
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I would guess it has a lot to do with the girl...I remember one girl...It was like bunjee jumping or something...the chase...It was exciting, thrilling, etc. But after we had sex, I was like....ehhh...what now? Buuttt.....another girl came after her...and it was the same thing..the chase was exciting just as the last one...But even after we had sex, it was still the same....Everything remained flirty and it was great for a few months lol What I'm saying tho...from my own experience...is that it depends on the girl. Some, I just wana fuck so bad, that after I do...I'm not interested..but I dont realize that until after I fuck em...But then some girls, theres just a genuine connection and the relationship tends to just carry itself..remains flirty, remains seductive, exciting, etc. |
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| Author: | bansario [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 1:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Enjoy the chase more than anything else |
Quote: Yep, I enjoy the chase and the flirting part more than anything else in the game. However I am sexually attracted to these girls and I know after I hook up with them I will have nothing else to look forward to.
You might be experiencing a common side effect of this lifestyle. I called it "social desensitization". Basically, you can't "connect" with women because your PUA goals overpower your emotions. In other words, the chase beats settling.Does anyone else experience this? I want to maintain a super flirty "relationship" with a girl and hook up with them, but after that hook up the flirting goes away since I reached my goal. How would one keep that sexual tension there after a hook up? It's happened to me before, and as long as you embrace the PUA lifestyle it will stay with you. A solution might be for you to stop reading, practicing, sarging for a while. You will come down from the cloud of being untouchable with women to just becoming a mere AFC like the rest of the men out there. Also, you may want to get to know women for longer periods of time before sleeping with them. Once you feel you have invested too much time and effort, it might be a bit difficult to let them go. |
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