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| Author: | somebody delete this shit [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 7:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | So many girls want me it's ridiculous...but I don't close |
So many girls want me it's ridiculous...but I don't pull the trigger... The more and more i go out the more i see a girl basically begging for me to do something to her but I don't...I was told by my psychiatrist that I have success anxiety...I'm fearful of my own potential success so I tend to settle quite frequently I just can't seem to close...kissing, pulling, fucking, heck even dancing [albeit i'm happy to dance on my own] Unless she initiates it, i don't do it |
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| Author: | bullshitter1 [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 8:47 pm ] |
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u have a fucking shrink...u must have money...no wonder the women want u... i can talk bullshit to u for half of whatever your shrink is charging you. get back to me...ive got a SPAM account not joking here why should i give it for free, if your willing to pay |
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| Author: | bansario [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 9:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: So many girls want me it's ridiculous...but I don't close |
Quote: So many girls want me it's ridiculous...but I don't pull the trigger...
So what exactly is your question?
The more and more i go out the more i see a girl basically begging for me to do something to her but I don't...I was told by my psychiatrist that I have success anxiety...I'm fearful of my own potential success so I tend to settle quite frequently I just can't seem to close...kissing, pulling, fucking, heck even dancing [albeit i'm happy to dance on my own] Unless she initiates it, i don't do it |
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| Author: | somebody delete this shit [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 10:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: So many girls want me it's ridiculous...but I don't close |
Quote: Quote: So many girls want me it's ridiculous...but I don't pull the trigger...
So what exactly is your question?The more and more i go out the more i see a girl basically begging for me to do something to her but I don't...I was told by my psychiatrist that I have success anxiety...I'm fearful of my own potential success so I tend to settle quite frequently I just can't seem to close...kissing, pulling, fucking, heck even dancing [albeit i'm happy to dance on my own] Unless she initiates it, i don't do it honestly look at last night for me -img-src-http-cdn2pick-up-artist-forumc ... tml#558083 like they're all over me but i can't close, it just doesn't happen for me. it's been a consistent thing @bullshitter1 what the hell are you talking about. I'm a college student, i personally have no money. Who cares if i have a therapist doesn't mean anything, i actually get free sessions through the school, albeit i do have one back at home i just rarely ever used him. you have to relax Plus I NEVER bring up money in a conversation with someone, it's just not a proper thing to do. I do wear nice close, but so do most people at my school so what's your point |
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| Author: | bullshitter1 [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 10:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: So many girls want me it's ridiculous...but I don't close |
Quote: @bullshitter1 what the hell are you talking about. I'm a college student, i personally have no money. Who cares if i have a therapist doesn't mean anything, i actually get free sessions through the school, albeit i do have one back at home i just rarely ever used him. you have to relax Plus I NEVER bring up money in a conversation with someone, it's just not a proper thing to do. I do wear nice close, but so do most people at my school so what's your point uh i see i hit a nerve...po peeps dont see therapists...not in my experience of life...personally u have no money translates to ur parents are rich as hell....u dont bring up money in conversations but u do bring up money if u "wear nice clothes" and "so do most pople at my school" Ill tell u why i brough up money...because unless u r a complete sociopath why the fuck does anyone need a shrink...???? a shrink to realx...dont mind if i commence pissing myself laughing... am i trying to wind u up? Yes i am why u may ask..just to be an asshole...no im trying to get u to wake the fuck up. The shrink tells u ur fucked up so u believe him...well thats fucking useful aint it. so now u think u have some mental probelm preventing u from pulling the trigger well there aint no problem u just think there is so why not change ur mind Quote:
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| Author: | somebody delete this shit [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 10:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: So many girls want me it's ridiculous...but I don't close |
Quote: Quote: @bullshitter1 what the hell are you talking about. I'm a college student, i personally have no money. Who cares if i have a therapist doesn't mean anything, i actually get free sessions through the school, albeit i do have one back at home i just rarely ever used him. you have to relax Plus I NEVER bring up money in a conversation with someone, it's just not a proper thing to do. I do wear nice close, but so do most people at my school so what's your point uh i see i hit a nerve...po peeps dont see therapists...not in my experience of life...personally u have no money translates to ur parents are rich as hell....u dont bring up money in conversations but u do bring up money if u "wear nice clothes" and "so do most pople at my school" Ill tell u why i brough up money...because unless u r a complete sociopath why the fuck does anyone need a shrink...???? a shrink to realx...dont mind if i commence pissing myself laughing... am i trying to wind u up? Yes i am why u may ask..just to be an asshole...no im trying to get u to wake the fuck up. The shrink tells u ur fucked up so u believe him...well thats fucking useful aint it. so now u think u have some mental probelm preventing u from pulling the trigger well there aint no problem u just think there is so why not change ur mind Quote: By nice clothes, they are "nice" but simple. nothing elaborate simple solid color polo shirts, madras button downs, button down shirts, khakis/chinos and stuff. sweaters, fleece, vests the clothes i wear are nice but don't stand out or anything like that. plus most of it is pretty old 4+ years old i think the age adds to the character of the clothing but that's not even the point I'm still having trouble closing, All but 1 girl was all over me last night...and i just didn't close any of them |
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| Author: | magicrob86 [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 11:07 pm ] |
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so what the fuck do you expect us to do?, you have the ladies there for you to do the picking.. you have to grow a pair, and start making some moves simple as that. are you a fucking man, or you a bitch?.. the choice is yours, next time you get into a situation, and you know you can close.. do it |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 12:11 pm ] |
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drinking might be the solution for you, or some meds. |
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| Author: | GoldDust [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 12:26 pm ] |
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Quote: drinking might be the solution for you, or some meds.
Exactly what I was about to say. I was in the same boat as you a year ago.I'm a good looking guy and I get attention from chicks all the time, be it day or night. You're probably totally sober in the club and aren't in state. Have a few drinks, shots if you have to, to get yourself in the mood. You know you've had enough to drink when you're in the "I don't give a fuck anymore" mindset. That's when you are ready to do your shit. When you make eye contact with a girl, you can simply just wave at her with a cheeky smile, wait for the IOI then you can call her over with your finger and then go for it. I found it very difficult to do at first but now it's slowly becoming second nature. The first girl I kissed, I was drunk as hell and I almost fucked her on the same night. We were in a bed making out, I was going for her jeans then says she's a virgin and she didn't believe me when I told her I was too LOL. She thought I was a player and had fucked tons of girls. This gave me a ton of confidence as it showed my body language was good, and I led her everywhere like a man should. Had a good player vibe about me. After that I had broken my initial shy guy barrier and have got better since. I wouldn't advise it but you could get drunk as fuck on a night where you just don't give a shit anymore and you will start to talk and dance with girls. If this doesn't help, I don't know what will. |
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| Author: | somebody delete this shit [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 1:00 pm ] |
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The thing is whenever I blackout i get laid...but i always regret it. i'm the one getting buyers remorse the next morning. basically i wake up turn around see some girl there and think "what the fuck" typically the girl is pretty hot, i just feel like I've been taken advantaged of I do have a few drinks here and there now more to get buzzed basically instead of shotgunning like 8 beers at a party or getting a bunch fo shots of cheap drinks i'm at a bar ordering some makers or something nice and enjoying it vs getting fucked up I'm trying to avoid the buyers remorse that i always felt |
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| Author: | Cointoss [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 1:13 pm ] |
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Consider a sex change operation. |
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| Author: | GoldDust [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 2:09 pm ] |
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So wait hold on a second... Your initial post says you can't even approach a girl giving you IOIs which is what I thought your primary concern was. Now you say you do get laid but regret it. So what is it you actually want to get out of this, I really don't understand. If blacking out is your problem, drink less. If approaching girls is the problem, just drink enough until your buzzed and don't care. But your last post contradicts your first post so fill me in. |
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| Author: | eajp3165614 [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 2:51 pm ] |
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Quote: Consider a sex change operation.
lolllllllllllllllllllllll
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| Author: | somebody delete this shit [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 3:18 pm ] |
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Quote: So wait hold on a second...
My issue isn't openingYour initial post says you can't even approach a girl giving you IOIs which is what I thought your primary concern was. Now you say you do get laid but regret it. So what is it you actually want to get out of this, I really don't understand. If blacking out is your problem, drink less. If approaching girls is the problem, just drink enough until your buzzed and don't care. But your last post contradicts your first post so fill me in. I have no AA my issue is closing. |
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| Author: | madals [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 3:21 pm ] |
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sorry OP for locking this thread, unfortunately you seem to be having a lot of people flame you and the topic has been completely re-railed. PM me if you want some help. Guys, remember rule 1, no flaming. This is an official warning to: Cointoss Magicrob86 Bullshitter1 |
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