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8 months ago me and this ex we broke up. I tried and failed, seeing I was acting like afc I completely cut contact with her. She cried told me she missed but was the best for her ,while I was still after her. So I didn’t had any contact on those 8 months, had girls, and she probably knows it because of my face book photos.
Well I can see, she has other guys going after her I can see that on face book. And she got hitted kind a lot of clubs
Nowadays I changed town, studying now in another university very far away,
When I was moving I sent her txt asking if she want her things(some books ). She told me that after summer we would have time for that.
Two weeks ago she contacts me on face book, asking for us to get together for coffee and get her things. It was strange because its was the time we start dating. I told her that I wasn’t in her city anymore. She said ok. So I thought it was the end of it.
Last night she sent me a txt telling me when I come back? I ask her what up and she told me she missed me. I went to talk to her on SPAM, telling she was acting weird. She told me she wasn’t drunk, she only missed spending time with me. I don’t know where this is coming from maybe my recent picture that I updated on facebook where I’m on wedding looking very handsome ,and where I received a lot of coments on girls I don’t know.
It makes no sense my brother tells me its validation… I kind of hardy agreed since she has guys constantly going after her, and she probably dated. This is not the first time we have dated stopped and dated again… but this was a period of 3 months. This is 8 months …
Any one want to give me a light here?
Let me take a guess at this: She wanted the break-up cause she wanted to fuck around (I'm talking about having SEX with other MEN). Well I can see, she has other guys going after her I can see that on face book. And she got hitted kind a lot of clubs
Nowadays I changed town, studying now in another university very far away,
When I was moving I sent her txt asking if she want her things(some books ). She told me that after summer we would have time for that.
Two weeks ago she contacts me on face book, asking for us to get together for coffee and get her things. It was strange because its was the time we start dating. I told her that I wasn’t in her city anymore. She said ok. So I thought it was the end of it.
Last night she sent me a txt telling me when I come back? I ask her what up and she told me she missed me. I went to talk to her on SPAM, telling she was acting weird. She told me she wasn’t drunk, she only missed spending time with me. I don’t know where this is coming from maybe my recent picture that I updated on facebook where I’m on wedding looking very handsome ,and where I received a lot of coments on girls I don’t know.
It makes no sense my brother tells me its validation… I kind of hardy agreed since she has guys constantly going after her, and she probably dated. This is not the first time we have dated stopped and dated again… but this was a period of 3 months. This is 8 months …
Any one want to give me a light here?
She probably did (same for you), and now she wants things to go back to normal. Maybe she couldnt be satisfied sexually or emotionally to the other men she met, so you're a good option for her.
Nobody knows the full story, and maybe you guys broke up for other reasons, but if you tried to get her back and she didnt want to, it's clear that she was just interested in other things at the time.
You should do what you feel like doing. You want to go back to her, then do so. You want to stop all interaction, then go ahead. My point is that nobody can make the decision for you. She has given you green light, so now, the soul searching is yours to be made. Oh, if you just want sex that's another option.
