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For the third consecutive night out I walk into a club and BAM a cute girl with a fairly large group of friends looks right at me and smiles.

Throughout the night we keep making eye contact/sing the words of the songs at each other. A dude or two stops to talk to her but they wind up leaving and she continues to look over at me. Here's the funny part: TWICE she slowly shifted her position in her group and coincidentally wound up right in front of me. I could see her in the corner of my eye occassionally turning her head to look back at me. Being me I took it as a coincidence and didn't grab her from the back and start dancing with her.

Would you suspect that she purposely shifted her position to get into my zone? I still can't believe I didn't do anything.

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Do not overthink this situation. If she makes eye contact more than once, she is giving you a subtle indication that you should approach her. Now, in this case, not only she gives you the eye contact, but also smiles!!! That's a GO.

About her getting in your way to be noticed, it may not be coincidence. Considering you haven't moved, I would assume that the fact that "her group" is getting closer to you is an indication.

Next time, do not wait so much to pull the trigger. Make eye contact and hold it. At this point you should approach. If you don't, wait for the confirmation of the second eye contact, and just go for it. Play logistics. If she's buried in her group, it may be a bit complicated to go for direct opener without engaging the rest of the people in her social circle.

she was giving you multiples ioi and you did not act on it, i can not believe she still kept looking and looking at you, she was super super interested by your description... If you take sooooooo long to approach like you did, it shows lack of confidence and insecurity which is an automatic turn off to women and/or reduces/kill attraction, sometimes if you stare toooo long creepy as well. next time go up to her at the right timing/logistics and dance we her... simple! if you can not dance go up to her and say how are you going to look at me like that and not say anything, or how you going to look at me like that and not dance with me, and start dancing..NOw you know for next time...

Author:	bp029 [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 2:22 pm ]
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For the third consecutive night out I walk into a club and BAM a cute girl with a fairly large group of friends looks right at me and smiles. Throughout the night we keep making eye contact/sing the words of the songs at each other. A dude or two stops to talk to her but they wind up leaving and she continues to look over at me. Here's the funny part: TWICE she slowly shifted her position in her group and coincidentally wound up right in front of me. I could see her in the corner of my eye occassionally turning her head to look back at me. Being me I took it as a coincidence and didn't grab her from the back and start dancing with her. Would you suspect that she purposely shifted her position to get into my zone? I still can't believe I didn't do anything.

Author:	whitetea [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 4:36 pm ]
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forget it,....move on. next time if you feel the hint she's flirting with you...go talk to her! remember the sooner the better....if you take too long she'll lose interest. later

Author:	bansario [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 6:28 pm ]
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Quote: For the third consecutive night out I walk into a club and BAM a cute girl with a fairly large group of friends looks right at me and smiles. Throughout the night we keep making eye contact/sing the words of the songs at each other. A dude or two stops to talk to her but they wind up leaving and she continues to look over at me. Here's the funny part: TWICE she slowly shifted her position in her group and coincidentally wound up right in front of me. I could see her in the corner of my eye occassionally turning her head to look back at me. Being me I took it as a coincidence and didn't grab her from the back and start dancing with her. Would you suspect that she purposely shifted her position to get into my zone? I still can't believe I didn't do anything. Do not overthink this situation. If she makes eye contact more than once, she is giving you a subtle indication that you should approach her. Now, in this case, not only she gives you the eye contact, but also smiles!!! That's a GO. About her getting in your way to be noticed, it may not be coincidence. Considering you haven't moved, I would assume that the fact that "her group" is getting closer to you is an indication. Next time, do not wait so much to pull the trigger. Make eye contact and hold it. At this point you should approach. If you don't, wait for the confirmation of the second eye contact, and just go for it. Play logistics. If she's buried in her group, it may be a bit complicated to go for direct opener without engaging the rest of the people in her social circle.

Author:	skills360 [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 6:32 pm ]
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she was giving you multiples ioi and you did not act on it, i can not believe she still kept looking and looking at you, she was super super interested by your description... If you take sooooooo long to approach like you did, it shows lack of confidence and insecurity which is an automatic turn off to women and/or reduces/kill attraction, sometimes if you stare toooo long creepy as well. next time go up to her at the right timing/logistics and dance we her... simple! if you can not dance go up to her and say how are you going to look at me like that and not say anything, or how you going to look at me like that and not dance with me, and start dancing..NOw you know for next time...

Author:	bp029 [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 6:43 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Another dancefloor fail!
Quote: Quote: For the third consecutive night out I walk into a club and BAM a cute girl with a fairly large group of friends looks right at me and smiles. Throughout the night we keep making eye contact/sing the words of the songs at each other. A dude or two stops to talk to her but they wind up leaving and she continues to look over at me. Here's the funny part: TWICE she slowly shifted her position in her group and coincidentally wound up right in front of me. I could see her in the corner of my eye occassionally turning her head to look back at me. Being me I took it as a coincidence and didn't grab her from the back and start dancing with her. Would you suspect that she purposely shifted her position to get into my zone? I still can't believe I didn't do anything. Do not overthink this situation. If she makes eye contact more than once, she is giving you a subtle indication that you should approach her. Now, in this case, not only she gives you the eye contact, but also smiles!!! That's a GO. About her getting in your way to be noticed, it may not be coincidence. Considering you haven't moved, I would assume that the fact that "her group" is getting closer to you is an indication. Next time, do not wait so much to pull the trigger. Make eye contact and hold it. At this point you should approach. If you don't, wait for the confirmation of the second eye contact, and just go for it. Play logistics. If she's buried in her group, it may be a bit complicated to go for direct opener without engaging the rest of the people in her social circle. I didn't move at all. I maintained my position for most of the night. We literally made eye contact well into the double digits over the course of the night, smiling almost the whole time. The major positive I took from this one is that I was able to hold the eye contact and smile back which is an improvement for me.

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Author:	bansario [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 6:45 pm ]
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Great man, that's cool. As mentioned before, next time you find yourself in the same situation, think about reacting instead of just getting stuck in the moment. If women are giving you so many IOI's then probably you're good-looking or whatever, so take advantage of that . You got it bro lol.

Author:	bp029 [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 6:47 pm ]
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Quote: she was giving you multiples ioi and you did not act on it, i can not believe she still kept looking and looking at you, she was super super interested by your description... If you take sooooooo long to approach like you did, it shows lack of confidence and insecurity which is an automatic turn off to women and/or reduces/kill attraction, sometimes if you stare toooo long creepy as well. next time go up to her at the right timing/logistics and dance we her... simple! if you can not dance go up to her and say how are you going to look at me like that and not say anything, or how you going to look at me like that and not dance with me, and start dancing..NOw you know for next time... I didn't get the sense that she was getting a creepy vibe from me most likely because I think we were keeping it playful singing the words of the songs and smiling at each other. I don't dance well but it doesn't stop me from doing it lol. I was dancing to the music the whole time too. But yea I gotta get in there!!! She gave me one last eye contact and big smile on the way out the door so you're right there must've been a big attraction. We were at it for over 2 hours!

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