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| Author: | pocket_rockets [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 5:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | cold approaching on campus |
I go to a medium sized university and I'm thinking about practicing some day game. Weekends are best I think since girls are probably less likely to be rushing to class. I figured I'd just go up to a girl, tell her she's cute, blah blah. The downside to this? I don't wanna be a creep. Like many of you guys have said, school is a closed system. It's a small world. I kind of did something like this before for a short while. Started bumping into those random girls at parties. I don't wanna have the reputation of being that random creepy guy who talks to random girls he's never seen before. What do you guys think? |
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| Author: | AznPersuasion [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 5:55 pm ] |
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You're not the random creepy guy that just talks to random girls unless you think you are. In fact, you're not even close to being creepy. Get into the appropriate mindset. All you're doing is meeting new friends. I like to quote my friend, and many others, saying, "Strangers are all friends we haven't met yet." Inevitably some stuck up bitch will think you're creepy or talk shit, but that's just human beings for you. You need to stop focusing so much on what people think of you, and more about portraying who you are. Most of us aren't bad guys, but we just have trouble projecting what's inside. Be confident. Be assertive. I don't understand why running into these girls at parties is a bad thing. Just acknowledge them for who they are; a few girls you've met before. If you're worried that they will all think you're a player or just trying to pick up chicks since you know so many women, you're an idiot. That's gold. Women LOVE guys who surround themselves with other women. It's subconscious. You've already qualified yourself by having the ability to keep women around you. I might be misinterpreting your question completely (and am most certainly rambling), so let me know what you're thinking with some follow-up! lol |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 7:05 pm ] |
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Quote: You're not the random creepy guy that just talks to random girls unless you think you are. In fact, you're not even close to being creepy. Get into the appropriate mindset.
Amen to that.. A Votes coming your way
All you're doing is meeting new friends. I like to quote my friend, and many others, saying, "Strangers are all friends we haven't met yet." Inevitably some stuck up bitch will think you're creepy or talk shit, but that's just human beings for you. You need to stop focusing so much on what people think of you, and more about portraying who you are. Most of us aren't bad guys, but we just have trouble projecting what's inside. Be confident. Be assertive. I don't understand why running into these girls at parties is a bad thing. Just acknowledge them for who they are; a few girls you've met before. If you're worried that they will all think you're a player or just trying to pick up chicks since you know so many women, you're an idiot. That's gold. Women LOVE guys who surround themselves with other women. It's subconscious. You've already qualified yourself by having the ability to keep women around you. I might be misinterpreting your question completely (and am most certainly rambling), so let me know what you're thinking with some follow-up! lol |
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