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| Author: | kajinn [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:34 pm ] |
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A few days ago I set up a date with a girl, told her the time to be at my place, what clothes to wear and that we were doing some things and then going to dinner but not where we were going. She was all for it. This was set up for tomorrow night. So she just texts me saying she forgot she had plans with her friend. I replied "Oh ok. Good thing I didn't make the reservations yet..." I probably should have lied and said oh I'll have to cancel the reservations haha. She hasn't replied yet, but what should I do/say next? I want to make her feel guilty and that she has to make it up to me right? Could use some help quick so I am ready when she responds. Thanks guys |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:37 pm ] |
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You don't want to make her feel guilty.. You want her to knows its cool, just be around next time. Don't even respond to her next message. you have better things to do. and don't lie about canceling reservations, that just means you still have to put in more work on her behalf. Putting her in more of a power position |
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| Author: | kajinn [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:41 pm ] |
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Oh I should maybe add, this is a chick I've been "seeing" for 1.5 months, already sleeping with her etc. It's not a girl I just picked up, if that makes any difference. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:49 pm ] |
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Wouldnt matter if you knew her your entire life.. Why would you want to give a chick any negative emotions.. Theres a time a place for that and its never done over text messaging |
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| Author: | charblad [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:55 pm ] |
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Quote: Wouldnt matter if you knew her your entire life.. COMPLETELY TRUE, NEVER give a girl bad emotions towards you via text, and basically never neg over txt either (its the same thing) You will regret it about 2 minutes after you send it.
Why would you want to give a chick any negative emotions.. Theres a time a place for that and its never done over text messaging |
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| Author: | kajinn [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 7:02 pm ] |
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Well I meant make her feel guilty like "It's cool, but now you owe me one  " Not by saying something negative, I never text her negative things, I usually try to spring good emotions to her through texting. I sent her an unrelated message about something else to change the topic so she doesn't think I am mad at her but she still hasn't responded. I think I'm about done putting in any more effort with this one though. Going to break my one-itis and set this chick on the back burner.
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