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Author:  green_mo [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 3:35 pm ]
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What is best in day time, picking up a women, direct game or indirect game?
Author:  P-Style [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 4:24 pm ]
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When you're going for your target you're going for your target so don't fuck around wasting time by asking who lies more.
Author:  green_mo [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 4:30 pm ]
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When you're going for your target you're going for your target so don't fuck around wasting time by asking who lies more.
I dont use this opener, i know this girl for some time, and now we hang out a little bit, go jogging together, been with her on caffe several times, when we have caffe we chit chat...... And i don't wanna fucked up with this girl, because i like her.
Author:  Omalie Cat [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 4:39 pm ]
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Sounds like you don't have a choice. If you've been out with a girl multiple times... it's time to start escalating and being more direct. Remember, you must lead the interaction. Chances are, she won't.
Author:  P-Style [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 4:50 pm ]
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Dude, why are you asking us what's best to do when it's about a particular girl, a girl you have even already opened that is. You're topictitle is totally wrong.

Ok to respond your true question:
As it seems you already spend lots of time with the girl she either is interested in you or she thinks you're her best buddy.

How do you know which is which? Well hard to say for us but look at the IOI's. Both physical and verbal. If from time to time you feel she's trowing an IOI. It means she likes you a love partner.
Does she talk about other men, problems in her life etc. she likes you as her emotional tampon.


If situation two is the case the only way out is by breaking rapport. That is as easy as answering "damn what a boring story" or "I couldn't care any less" when she's talking about other men. And then profile yourself as a possible partner by displaying some qualities such as humour, sexuality and confidence. When you're chatting with her: lean back, slow yourself down (again both physical and verbal), don't be overly eager showing positive emotions when she's chatting. And so on.


And if you really don't want to fuck up with this one: forget everything I just told you there because it will take practice to master these techniques. And practice time should be over when you're playing for gold.



Now in return I want to ask you a question: why is it you think we have the magic pill that will make you capture the girl's heart? (I'm not joking here. Answering it could help you alot)
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 5:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Direct or indirect game
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What is best in day time, picking up a women, direct game or indirect game?
Well, if you stop a woman in broad daylight, it makes NO SENSE to ask her a random opinion opener, because it's like "ok, why are you stopping ME to ask me this random thing?" If you ask her for directions, or some other random question like that, then as soon as she's answered, there's no reason for her to stick around, and why on earth are you inventing an EXCUSE to talk to her anyway? She's a fucking girl, not a scary monster who'll bite your head off.

Just stop her, and fucking tell her the TRUTH - that you find her attractive and wanted to come meet her. It's that simple. Be DIRECT, be HONEST and you will have more AUTHENTIC interactions with women. Plus, they will admire all these qualities and find you very CONFIDENT. It's win-win!
Author:  green_mo [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 5:05 pm ]
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Now in return I want to ask you a question: why is it you think we have the magic pill that will make you capture the girl's heart? (I'm not joking here. Answering it could help you alot)
I know that that quick fix, doesn't exist. I am in the game from 14 years and now i am 26. When i was 22 i discovered seduction community and i want to be beter with womens. Before that i was dating some chicks (three was models), but not have a lot of girlfriends, because i fall ill with one rarely disease and must recovery from that. Because i like to chose a good looking girls, but all chicks i date or have affair with them was on scale 9-10.
Author:  P-Style [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:08 pm ]
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Hmmz so you're already experienced in the game?
Than it seems to me you either will have to rely on your experience in order to make the right moves or you should be able to give us information in closer detail about for example her behaviour when she's near you.
Author:  green_mo [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:23 pm ]
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Hmmz so you're already experienced in the game?
Than it seems to me you either will have to rely on your experience in order to make the right moves or you should be able to give us information in closer detail about for example her behaviour when she's near you.
Thanks man for help, i decided to stop playing this girl, and move on another. I have a small chat throught sms, and i asked if she missed me when i was 1 week away, and she repeded me NO, that she missed only one her friend Lidia (Lidia train with her and she is away on seaside). And other things went wrong...

I have learned a lot of this interaction past two month.

Thanks again :))
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