It's a question about freezing out, here's some background information if you want it, if not skip right ahead to the bold
Alright I was kinda chasing this girl. I know I know, normally I dont chase either
Anyways, LJBF me after hanging out with me. She just came out of a relationship (I seem to attract those ones lately) yada yada yada.
Since she lives in a dorm and I still live with my parents I stole (think it was adam lyons?) this idea to escalate at her hoom. Set up a movie night with the 2 of us and miss your last bus/train home, so you'd have to stay the night
So far the plan, here's the execution:
I set her up during for this during a conversation on Messenger:
She initiates a college related conversation, we talk for a while.
Me: Anyways I was watching this movie with my sister, don't want to keep her waiting
Her: Oh, real quick then, what movie?
Me: Some twilight crap (Can't remember if it really was or if it was something else)
Her: Oh I liked that one!
Me: Meh, not really my type of movie, my fav movie is Peaceful warrior (highly recommended btw)
Her: Hmmm never seen it.
Me: You have never seen Peaceful Warrior? That's crazy!?! We are going to have a movie night together, I'll get the popcorn and the movie, you arrange the cinema
You have a microwave right?Her: I don't
Me: Then I'll get Ben and Jerry's, you just make sure you have a couple of clean spoons
Her: Ben and Jerry's!! And yeah I've got like 20 spoons
Me: We'll pick a date later, I'll watch the rest of the movie with my sister now.
Like a few days or so later, texting her
Me: Hey curly (nickname doesn't really translate well but it's a joke when you call a women with straight hair curly) I dont have to train on Fridays (vacation or something), so we can arrange our movie night then. What kinda Ben and Jerry's did you love again?
Her: Hahahaha Do I have any say in that?
I'm going to have to disappoint you, cause that's not gonna fly. I have to work and learn for exams. So sorry, another time mister! (Maybe you might find someone else for your movie night )Alright she's been like this one time before, agreeing to a date then backing off....So I decided a freeze out. Completely ignore her on facebook, if she texts me don't text back and just be short if she holla's me during college. Question is.....how do I come back from a freeze out? Do I need to give her an excuse for ignoring her for 1 or 2 weeks? Not mention it? Invent a personal drama? I have no idea how to go about it. Any idea's, suggestions or help would be appreciated