PUA Forum :: Can You Really Get Hot Chciks Without A Big Social Circle?

Im a firm believer that having a big social circle is beneficial....it is NOT needed for a single man to get together and or find a great female to take out, and end up having a relationship with......If you're doing your job as a man....she will be satisfied with you, and friends will not really matter.

Even in highschool, I never saw the hot girls not hooking up with guys that weren't popular. I've seen ugly guys do it, but not guys that weren't social.

In my opinion no... I've never had a big social circle- something that winds me up every day. The thing is, unless your a true player, any girl you pick up WILL at somepoint want to check you out and do her homework. If you've been DHVing all this time then all of a sudden she checks your Facebook (for example) and boom? why doesn't this guy have any friends...

I'm saying this from experience and perhaps looking for a little advice... Most of the time I meet girls is when I'm at work (I have a bar job). So whenever a girl hits on me/I hit on her I already have higher value but when they check me out later on they flake as I have hardly any social status. I know this belongs in a different topic but how can I DHV outside of interaction- on Facebook eg!

PS just had a depressing night at work where hot barmaid colleague was pretty much alpha-ing me all night making me feel insignificant... Heal me!

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well first off fuck facebook...i still cant get over how many fools are suckered into that shit...
Im not on it..never have been...
I have few friends in life...thats cos i have high expectations of friends...if i only listed them on facebook it would look like i hardly knew anyone....this isnt the case...i know tons of people but i dont want them to think they are actually my friends and thats what would happen if i was on facebook adding everyone who knows me...or think they know me...
this is what most assholes do to make themselves appear popular...give me a break...
facebook is a popularity contest for losers...its childish...time consuming...bullshit...privacy destroying....CIA snooping bullshit.
And another thing...if u game lots of women dont u think they are gonna start swapping info on your ass once they find u on facebook...what a fuckign nightmare that would be....
I bet face book has ruined many a fools credibility and caused many a shit storm.
if u dont want women checking your social proof then get the fuck of facebook...the kiss of death.

Author:	LocoGooner [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 10:58 pm ]
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I honestly don't think so. most girls want a guy with a higher social status than herself and most hot girls have high social status so they're more attracted a guy with the same or higher status than her. Meaning a guy with a lot of connections and big circle. Even in highschool, I never saw the hot girls not hooking up with guys that weren't popular. I've seen ugly guys do it, but not guys that weren't social. discuss

Author:	Olivier [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 11:21 pm ]
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You don't have to get hot girls from within your social circle right? How the hell would a girl know if your social circle is big? You can just fake it if you really wanted to. Being socially able is an important DHV, sure it is...... Thing is, a big social circle usually indicates that you are have social skills. It doesn't have to be the other way around. As long as you spike some other attraction switches I see no reason why you couldn't make up for having no social life.... Also I don't believe the whole popularity thing, maybe it's because my non-american highschool looked nothing like your typical High School Musical or Glee crap. Want to learn how to fake it? Rather get a big social circle for real: - Talk to one new person everyday. - Greet everyone who's name you know - Have inside jokes with multiple people (inside jokes with girls always look more interesting) - Introduce people around

Author:	Stand Up [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 11:42 pm ]
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It makes it easier, but as you develop the skills to pick up hot chicks and spend a lot of time out meeting girls you'll probably develop a big social circle by accident.

Author:	Alphabet Soup Dragon [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 12:14 am ]
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Maybe its more important to get on with her friends. In school, where you see the same people everyday, its probably different because obviously you see each other with everyone else all the time, so anyone who is not in a group sticks out very clearly due to the situation.

Author:	motownsoul [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 2:02 am ]
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Im a firm believer that having a big social circle is beneficial....it is NOT needed for a single man to get together and or find a great female to take out, and end up having a relationship with......If you're doing your job as a man....she will be satisfied with you, and friends will not really matter.

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Author:	charblad [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 2:10 am ]
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Quote: Im a firm believer that having a big social circle is beneficial....it is NOT needed for a single man to get together and or find a great female to take out, and end up having a relationship with......If you're doing your job as a man....she will be satisfied with you, and friends will not really matter. 75% of the girls I'm with at any time don't even know my social circle; doesn't mean they are useless but like everything in PUA it's only as big of a deal as you make it

Author:	motownsoul [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 2:25 am ]
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I'm not saying anyone is useless.... But having friends really doesn't matter. If you're an interesting person, most women will be satisfied..I mean, there was a time in high school i had a HUGE social circle..How much ass was I getting? NONE...lol sad but true..Now a few years later, with just a fraction of friends I hang out with..I have much greater success.....granted I am a little wiser and smarter than high school days....But its good to see it that way. You can do everything by yourself, that you can do with a big group of people surrounding you. Thats all I'm trying to say

Author:	bullshitter1 [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 2:28 am ]
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any girl i fuck doesnt know fuck all about me..so social circles are irrelivant to me. I know in college its all about that shit but i am talking bar game and club game. instead of lying...as i really dont like lying, so i try to avoid it. What i do is...tell girls fuck all about who i am or what i do or my life. its none of their fucking business...i aint planning on marrying some nosy bitch i meet in a bar or club..once u start answering questions ur fucked. as its all about jumping through hoopps then ie..what job do i do? etc etc etc what i do it keep em guessing... it turns them on...if i played into their hands id never get layed.

Author:	P-Style [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 8:40 am ]
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Quote: Even in highschool, I never saw the hot girls not hooking up with guys that weren't popular. I've seen ugly guys do it, but not guys that weren't social. You're saying it yourself. At school status is about the most important. In clubs there's no way to measure status except for the way you present yourself.

Author:	Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 5:32 pm ]
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Can a wide social circle HELP you get hot girls? Absolutely. Do you NEED a social circle to get hot girls? Absolutely NOT. The vast majority of the girls I've dated over the past year were from a conversation on the street, just me and her, then a date, just me and her, then another date, just me and her. I might MENTION friends in conversation with her, but our social circles are completely irrelevant to this process.

Author:	stugots [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 7:32 pm ]
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It may be less relevant the older you get...the older you get the amount of REAL friends you have diminishes dramatically, but oddly enough, you find yourself talking to more random people...weird...

Author:	Khrem [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 3:15 am ]
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Social circles are more important in high school and college. And even then it depends on the school. Social circles don't matter nearly as much at my small, frat-less, liberal arts school than at a big state university. After graduation. It really doesn't matter. As with most factors of pickup. It's helpful but not needed.

Author:	Steward [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 4:12 am ]
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In my opinion no... I've never had a big social circle- something that winds me up every day. The thing is, unless your a true player, any girl you pick up WILL at somepoint want to check you out and do her homework. If you've been DHVing all this time then all of a sudden she checks your Facebook (for example) and boom? why doesn't this guy have any friends... I'm saying this from experience and perhaps looking for a little advice... Most of the time I meet girls is when I'm at work (I have a bar job). So whenever a girl hits on me/I hit on her I already have higher value but when they check me out later on they flake as I have hardly any social status. I know this belongs in a different topic but how can I DHV outside of interaction- on Facebook eg! PS just had a depressing night at work where hot barmaid colleague was pretty much alpha-ing me all night making me feel insignificant... Heal me!

Author:	bullshitter1 [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 4:41 am ]
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Quote: In my opinion no... I've never had a big social circle- something that winds me up every day. The thing is, unless your a true player, any girl you pick up WILL at somepoint want to check you out and do her homework. If you've been DHVing all this time then all of a sudden she checks your Facebook (for example) and boom? why doesn't this guy have any friends... I'm saying this from experience and perhaps looking for a little advice... Most of the time I meet girls is when I'm at work (I have a bar job). So whenever a girl hits on me/I hit on her I already have higher value but when they check me out later on they flake as I have hardly any social status. I know this belongs in a different topic but how can I DHV outside of interaction- on Facebook eg! PS just had a depressing night at work where hot barmaid colleague was pretty much alpha-ing me all night making me feel insignificant... Heal me! well first off fuck facebook...i still cant get over how many fools are suckered into that shit... Im not on it..never have been... I have few friends in life...thats cos i have high expectations of friends...if i only listed them on facebook it would look like i hardly knew anyone....this isnt the case...i know tons of people but i dont want them to think they are actually my friends and thats what would happen if i was on facebook adding everyone who knows me...or think they know me... this is what most assholes do to make themselves appear popular...give me a break... facebook is a popularity contest for losers...its childish...time consuming...bullshit...privacy destroying....CIA snooping bullshit. And another thing...if u game lots of women dont u think they are gonna start swapping info on your ass once they find u on facebook...what a fuckign nightmare that would be.... I bet face book has ruined many a fools credibility and caused many a shit storm. if u dont want women checking your social proof then get the fuck of facebook...the kiss of death.

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Author:	jurupa [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 7:08 am ]
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Quote: Quote: In my opinion no... I've never had a big social circle- something that winds me up every day. The thing is, unless your a true player, any girl you pick up WILL at somepoint want to check you out and do her homework. If you've been DHVing all this time then all of a sudden she checks your Facebook (for example) and boom? why doesn't this guy have any friends... I'm saying this from experience and perhaps looking for a little advice... Most of the time I meet girls is when I'm at work (I have a bar job). So whenever a girl hits on me/I hit on her I already have higher value but when they check me out later on they flake as I have hardly any social status. I know this belongs in a different topic but how can I DHV outside of interaction- on Facebook eg! PS just had a depressing night at work where hot barmaid colleague was pretty much alpha-ing me all night making me feel insignificant... Heal me! well first off fuck facebook...i still cant get over how many fools are suckered into that shit... Im not on it..never have been... I have few friends in life...thats cos i have high expectations of friends...if i only listed them on facebook it would look like i hardly knew anyone....this isnt the case...i know tons of people but i dont want them to think they are actually my friends and thats what would happen if i was on facebook adding everyone who knows me...or think they know me... this is what most assholes do to make themselves appear popular...give me a break... facebook is a popularity contest for losers...its childish...time consuming...bullshit...privacy destroying....CIA snooping bullshit. And another thing...if u game lots of women dont u think they are gonna start swapping info on your ass once they find u on facebook...what a fuckign nightmare that would be.... I bet face book has ruined many a fools credibility and caused many a shit storm. if u dont want women checking your social proof then get the fuck of facebook...the kiss of death. You mad bro?