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Author:  TwonTone [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:47 am ]
Post subject:  Question: Attraction during daygame
Hey what's up boys. Just have a quick question about the proper ways to build attraction during the daytime.

My main question has to do with how it's done. Should i feel weird applying club game dhv routines in the middle of starbucks or a bookstore or on the train? I'm solid at getting to the opener and getting to a nice situational, fluid, easygoing conversation, but I'm not entirely sure about how to actually build attraction.

All feedback is totally appreciated, regarding different routines, body language, natural game, etc. I'm a student of every school of thought out there as far as game is concerned, and I'm receptive to everything. Bonus if you guys have any helpful links or articles.

Happy Gaming,
TwoTone
Author:  GetFamiliar [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 2:42 am ]
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I'd say the main difference between night and day is the social climate. This effects negging for sure.

In a nightclub, a women is more likely to have a solid BS up than she would while walking downtown during the day. That being stated, negging at night and day is different. During the day, overnegging is likely to happen because whoever you're talking to might not even have a sturdy BS up. Negs still work during the day, but one should be careful with them.

I never use canned routines. I prefer to just keep conversation flowing naturally.

Also, go for the INSTANT DATE. If she declines your offer, then ask for the number.
Author:  charblad [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 3:17 am ]
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I'd say the main difference between night and day is the social climate. This effects negging for sure.

In a nightclub, a women is more likely to have a solid BS up than she would while walking downtown during the day. That being stated, negging at night and day is different. During the day, overnegging is likely to happen because whoever you're talking to might not even have a sturdy BS up. Negs still work during the day, but one should be careful with them.

I never use canned routines. I prefer to just keep conversation flowing naturally.

Also, go for the INSTANT DATE. If she declines your offer, then ask for the number.
Negs shouldn't even be big enough to talk specifically about, you shouldn't use it more than TWICE even if shes a b!tch in a nightclub. If shes nice you might not even have to do it once.
Anyways I agree, canned is a great way to start learning what to say but even if you cant come up with everything create your own can don't copy word for word what other guys say - and do go for the insta date, and even if she says yes to that get her number too
Author:  pumpington [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 3:52 am ]
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if it is daytime, drop MM, if you are using the m3 framework, assume attraction, start in a3 with a compliment on her appearance, into qualification, the shields are lowered in the day there for the chances of a girl assuming herself higher value is less likely (she is not used to being hit on during the day, therefore she will be less likely to see you as some needy drunk idiot and blow you off), it is not a party SPAM, match her vibe, in other words, come in low energy or she will think you are some freak rapist or something

just say something honest about her, if you are too afraid to give a direct compliment about her appearance and follow up with qualification, then just open as you normally do, but you might want to go easy on the negs, seeing as how the chances of her blowing you off are low in the day, and if you go indirect she will be wondering what your intentions are and why the hell you are talking to her (just going direct and being yourself is more fun during the day, imo, no need to jealous girlfriends her to death)

use your common sense when approaching, a girl who is stagnant will remain stagnant, you can spend some time getting to know her before you close, how ever a girl who is on the move, has somewhere to be, either start walking with her, or don't spend too much time on the close, you can also simply make some sort of qualifying statement to see if they are busy, ''wow, you know, you look busy today :)''

GOOD LUCK
Author:  GetFamiliar [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 4:24 am ]
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I'd say the main difference between night and day is the social climate. This effects negging for sure.

In a nightclub, a women is more likely to have a solid BS up than she would while walking downtown during the day. That being stated, negging at night and day is different. During the day, overnegging is likely to happen because whoever you're talking to might not even have a sturdy BS up. Negs still work during the day, but one should be careful with them.

I never use canned routines. I prefer to just keep conversation flowing naturally.

Also, go for the INSTANT DATE. If she declines your offer, then ask for the number.
Negs shouldn't even be big enough to talk specifically about, you shouldn't use it more than TWICE even if shes a b!tch in a nightclub. If shes nice you might not even have to do it once.
Anyways I agree, canned is a great way to start learning what to say but even if you cant come up with everything create your own can don't copy word for word what other guys say - and do go for the insta date, and even if she says yes to that get her number too
I think you're right about the negging. You should still playfully tease women in the daytime,however.
Author:  TwonTone [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 5:08 am ]
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Thanks a ton for the responses guys. That's a lot of good feedback and advice. I think my issue is that I put too much emphasis on the "Attraction" portion of things... Which is odd because I'm very confident in my physically appearance and I know how to be socially attractive as well. I'm gonna take a swing at skipping ahead to a3 and going right into qualification, and I'll definitely pay you guys back with an update (detailed script included!).

The only thing I'm unsure of is how to actually get her to agree to that instant date (ie. Vibe, things to say, etc). And I totally agree about negging. I think it has it's place, but has very limited use during the day.

Thanks guys, and please keep the tips coming! They're very appreciated.
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