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Author:  somebody delete this shit [ Wed Nov 02, 2011 6:50 am ]
Post subject:  Attempting online stuff: expressing genuine interest?
okay well basically i'm trying out online stuff...overall it's pretty easy i've gotten a crab ton of number, too bad i don't want to meet any of these girls

basically just be talking about random stuff that comes to my mind


then i came across this one beautiful girl's profile. She just had something about her. I start joking with her a bit, then i expressed my itnerest to her. i got pissed a bit and told her that i'm annoyed by her lack of responding to that last message where i told her i want to meet her and gave her my number

two days later i message her hi, she responds back

i went again and sent another message to her..this time ridiculously genuine about why i was interested in her and everything, what made her special, and then left it off by leaving the ball in her court to decide.


does doing this really work?

No i'm not trying to get into her pants, i might actually want a relationship with her

i told her we can meet for however long as she wants. if she's uncmfortable, bring a friend etc. i just really want to meet her to see if there's more to her and if my thoughts about her were correct
Author:  Mr Archer [ Wed Nov 02, 2011 7:08 am ]
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Honestly it doesn't sound like you know much about this girl at all.

Otherwise getting upset by her not responding is needy. It'd have to be a bit off-putting for someone you don't know well.

If you don't know someone too well and you're telling them you think they're amazing, etc. It can put them off a bit. Try to think about it from her side of things.

If the girl is still talking to you, back off a bit and try to build some rapport. Be a bit more casual about everything. You might finally meet and have zero chemistry.
Author:  thedocta [ Wed Nov 02, 2011 7:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Attempting online stuff: expressing genuine interest?
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i went again and sent another message to her..this time ridiculously genuine about why i was interested in her and everything, what made her special, and then left it off by leaving the ball in her court to decide.

does doing this really work?
No, it doesn't work, you've probably ruined your chances of even seeing her in person let alone a relationship. For girls emotions develop much more slowly than for guys and so it freaks them out and makes them think you must be desperate or mentally unstable to have unjustified emotions like this about them. You need to remain entirely in seduction mode until they start showing emotion back and only then is it safe to start showing them some real emotion.
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