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| Author: | Valor91 [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 5:49 am ] |
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Hi i'm 19 an attending college, I havent had much a dating experience want to build connections with a social circle, and so took this girl as an opportunity. I knew this girl back in elementary school, she added me on facebook and we had a conversation... it didn't turn out too well.. she'll be cupcakes and i'll be valor Valor: hey cc - we know each other from elementary cc: yes we have esl together *had Valor: no way i never had esl -.- * cc: oh jk then Valor: jerk lolz cc: we went to the same elementrary you never went to ms.o during class? Valor: it's been a long time i feel nostalgic, brb o stay there Valor: i didn't know ms.o was an esl teacher! cc: well she was haha Valor: but what i also didnt know was you took esl o how have you been, its hard to answer that isn't it cc: haha yeah o ive been really good Valor: great o what classes are you taking at the u cc: engl, math and a law class o are you here at uw? Valor: amazing, no im studying at bcc (bellevue) cc: are you trasferring to the u? Valor: it's my plan yes o did your first year go well cc: ehhh. it was okay haha Valor: i know how you feel, college is really different from highschool, i'm assuming you didnt do running start tho * cc: no. i kinda wish i did but a the same time i enjoyed hs. Valor: what career are you persuing, what are your goals o pursuing * cc: i think i might just do business its easier haha Valor: so now that we're mature adults, tell me what my impressions to you when we went lakeview o don't worry i'm not asking you to answer that right now o * cc: i dont remember. its been so long. i only have impressions of those who i actually saw since then. like alex and linda and lisa * Valor: do you still regularly see them cc: last time i saw linda was sr yr of hs. alex was just last quarter. Valor: awesome, did you apply for scholarships cc: nope. too lazy haha Valor: hey did you know about the websites called thewashboard.org? cc: nope Valor: I applied and got a scholarship my junior year, so now i get 1300 + pell each quarter * cc: damn hella nice o write any essays? Valor: you don't really want to read them do you? haha o speaking of which we should meet up outside of facebook to meet up sometime, how does saturday sound cc: i have plans. i need to get ready for an Association clubnight * Valor: next saturday then cc: i have Uni. turkey bowl lol o im a Association officer. i have an event every weekend Valor: sounds busy, lets try next wednsday for coffee cc: sorry weds are officer meetins o meetings Valor: thursday afternoon which starbucks is closest to you cc: is there something you wanted to say to me or talk about? if yes we can just do it over fb chat Valor: look i just want to get some exposure, only 20 minutes o 10 minutes o 5.. o 2 if you really like me cc: exposure? Valor: we haven't met for over 9 years cc: yeah... o thats a problem becasue... Valor: i just wanted to meet with you face to face and talk with you outside of facebook cc: sorry. im really busy. i barely have time to see my family on the weekends. Valor: what days do you have that are free, lets do that instead cc: im busy. sorry. gotta go. bye Valor: cya What stuck out is that I seem to have been really desperate, but I didn't think she could sense it over facebook, plus i'm just really hungry right now and can't focus too much. |
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| Author: | Valor91 [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 6:39 am ] |
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Quote: she seems to me like a rank 9 bitch, if she cant spare 5-10 minutes of time for you shes not worth your time son. if shes so busy why is she on facebook? hahaha i suggest you be straight up with her ask her out until she says yes.. and or until she gets mad and tells you straight up she doesnt want anything to do with a guy at this time. you have nothing to lose good luck
Feels like im going to gain some sort of stalker/creeper status if it keeps up like this. I don't want to date this girl, I just want to be in her social network.
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| Author: | Valor91 [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 7:47 am ] |
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Quote: so you pretty much just want to be friends with her?
Yes, even though based off her pictures i'd give her an hb7, I'm more interested in the fact that shes an officer of an association that organizes events EVERY WEEKEND. There's even a clubbing event nov. 5 with a $15 cover that shes running so YES YES YES. I even thought coffee would automatically get me into the friendzone.
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| Author: | 0uch [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 7:55 am ] |
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You need to work on your game. Your conversation is really boring. Is just comfort, learn some attraction. You will need both comfort and attraction. If you can only do one, stick with comfort, but this will only work on desperate girls or when your actually sarging. Also, is really hard to get girls to come out with 5 minutes worth of boring conversation to a coffee shop. Boring! Work on your lifestyle, take up hobbies that women will also enjoy and take them there. It is very important you take them. My last day 2, I took a girl to skatepark and was teaching her how to skate. It can be something lame like that. And it still beats coffee shop. |
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| Author: | Valor91 [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 8:26 am ] |
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Quote: You need to work on your game. Your conversation is really boring. Is just comfort, learn some attraction. You will need both comfort and attraction. If you can only do one, stick with comfort, but this will only work on desperate girls or when your actually sarging.
My goal is to really get this girl to come out and give me a chance to build attraction and trust on a physical level; something I don't feel like I have enough leverage to do over facebook. Also, is really hard to get girls to come out with 5 minutes worth of boring conversation to a coffee shop. Boring! Work on your lifestyle, take up hobbies that women will also enjoy and take them there. It is very important you take them. My last day 2, I took a girl to skatepark and was teaching her how to skate. It can be something lame like that. And it still beats coffee shop. How do i make a comeback after she has said "I'm busy. sorry. gotta go. bye" as in stating she wants nothing to do with me? |
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