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| Author: | Jimbo Slice [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 6:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Female friend insulting me |
I was talking to a girl the other night when one of my female friends came up really drunk I gave her a hug and she started talking to the girl telling her how she was so good looking that she could do better than me. I was so shocked I couldn't think of anything to say,I could hear everything she was saying,the girl asked me if she was my friend and I said ''not any more'' this definately lowered my value what way should I act in situations like this? |
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| Author: | fieldmonster [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 6:14 pm ] |
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you dont need to act. The bigger the dramma, the less you want to react (relationships). When she (1st girl) asked you, you should have just said,"jealousy" and washed away the topic |
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| Author: | charblad [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 6:47 pm ] |
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like field said dont react, just tell her "yea i agree, i mean when shes got a awesome friend like you why need a guy?" theres absolutely no way you cant win with that statement (dont throw a obvious amount of sarcasm on it, make it highly debatable whether you mean it or not) then change the topic and remain alpha, dont let her interrupt you again |
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| Author: | Jimbo Slice [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 6:54 pm ] |
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Quote: "yea i agree, i mean when shes got a awesome friend like you why need a guy?"
You misunderstood shes my ''friend'' not hers
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| Author: | Dáire [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 7:45 pm ] |
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That really sucks man but I know how you feel. Was at a club one night and there was a group of girls celebrating a birthday party. One of the girls was turning twenty and she was trying to kiss twenty guys before the end of the night. So I went and talked to them and before kissing the girl my female friend (best mates girlfriend) just grabbed my arm and pulled me away without any explanation. Needless to say I was pretty pissed, she completely ruined my mood and I ended up having a shitty night. I don't think this is gonna be a problem any more (my mate dumped her ass), but it'd be good to know how to handle these situations should they arise again. |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 7:48 pm ] |
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The best response to any attack/insult/test/friendly fire/cockblock is no response. Let him/her say her thang and ignore. |
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| Author: | bansario [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 9:21 pm ] |
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Damn, you've got some really messed-up friends lol. I'd have said "OMG, I love you so much..." and give her a big hug...then I'd have said "this is what alcohol leads us to..." and hugged her again. If you do that with a smile in your face, the whole situation is erased. 
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| Author: | Jimbo Slice [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 9:28 pm ] |
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Quote: Damn, you've got some really messed-up friends lol. I'd have said "OMG, I love you so much..." and give her a big hug...then I'd have said "this is what alcohol leads us to..." and hugged her again. If you do that with a smile in your face, the whole situation is erased.
Perfect ha ha,I'll keep this up my sleeve
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| Author: | fieldmonster [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 5:17 am ] |
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Quote: Damn, you've got some really messed-up friends lol. I'd have said "OMG, I love you so much..." and give her a big hug...then I'd have said "this is what alcohol leads us to..." and hugged her again. If you do that with a smile in your face, the whole situation is erased.
some tactics look good in theory but can backfire in reall life. She is drunk, she started insulting you righ away, now giving her a hug and throwing the line about alcohol would calm her? It may seem like it would but would it really work? She is drunk, her logical mind is not working , and in a situation like this, she could take your behaviour as an insult and situation can easily get worse. Go and try it and observe the results for yourself
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| Author: | bansario [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 11:12 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Damn, you've got some really messed-up friends lol. I'd have said "OMG, I love you so much..." and give her a big hug...then I'd have said "this is what alcohol leads us to..." and hugged her again. If you do that with a smile in your face, the whole situation is erased.
some tactics look good in theory but can backfire in reall life. She is drunk, she started insulting you righ away, now giving her a hug and throwing the line about alcohol would calm her? It may seem like it would but would it really work? She is drunk, her logical mind is not working , and in a situation like this, she could take your behaviour as an insult and situation can easily get worse. Go and try it and observe the results for yourself2-She's her friend 3-Since when are women logical... How would you handle a drunk friend of yours? By insulting her back? By freezing her out? If you ignore her it may backfire on you too...drunk people don't like to be ignored, especially when they're not happy campers. |
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| Author: | fieldmonster [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 12:13 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote: Damn, you've got some really messed-up friends lol. I'd have said "OMG, I love you so much..." and give her a big hug...then I'd have said "this is what alcohol leads us to..." and hugged her again. If you do that with a smile in your face, the whole situation is erased.
some tactics look good in theory but can backfire in reall life. She is drunk, she started insulting you righ away, now giving her a hug and throwing the line about alcohol would calm her? It may seem like it would but would it really work? She is drunk, her logical mind is not working , and in a situation like this, she could take your behaviour as an insult and situation can easily get worse. Go and try it and observe the results for yourself2-She's her friend 3-Since when are women logical... How would you handle a drunk friend of yours? By insulting her back? By freezing her out? If you ignore her it may backfire on you too...drunk people don't like to be ignored, especially when they're not happy campers. |
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