You don't have a problem, man.
95% of the people on this forum are here because of the same thing
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| Author: | pokerguy [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 3:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What is my problem? |
So basically I think that everyone who I dont know is better than me.Any advice on how to overcome this one? |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 3:50 pm ] |
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Stop believing it. Give yourself value. There have got to be things in which you are above average. |
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| Author: | Jacob292 [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 5:09 pm ] |
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As P-style said, it's all in your head! I don't want to be mean or anything, but have a look at the four MPUAs on the top of this page: Gambler, Adam, Sinn and Carlos: do they look like to you as super handsome guys like the ones you may see at an Abercrombie store or in GQ? No! The only thing they have in common, is confidence in themselves: they know they can get any girl they want. You know what? Without knowing you at all, I know, and I am confident, that you too can reach that confidence too. And it's only when you will tell yourself and convince yourself that you can have any girl you want, that in fact, you will be able to get any girl you want, when ever you want to. |
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 9:57 pm ] |
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it has to do with you growing up.. things that happened to you... |
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| Author: | Jimbo Slice [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 10:06 pm ] |
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how-to-skyrocket-your-game-no-matter-ho ... =skyrocket This changed my life and boosted my confidence to no end. I hope it helps you just as much. |
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| Author: | bansario [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 2:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is my problem? |
Quote: So basically I think that everyone who I dont know is better than me.Any advice on how to overcome this one?
The problem is that you think you have a problem on the first place.Also, your inner game needs some polishing. |
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| Author: | pokerguy [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 4:22 am ] |
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Hmm I think I got it,i'll see what I can make of it. Thanks for all the advice. |
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| Author: | Century100 [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 11:54 am ] |
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You don't have a problem, man. 95% of the people on this forum are here because of the same thing
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| Author: | AFCHavok [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 12:27 pm ] |
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Inner Game man...Inner game. You HAVE to change your frame of thinking yourself, either now...Your not going to be able to get rid of this feeling by saying your going to stop, you need to re-frame the feeling/thought so it works for you... I used to do the same thing, its a bad feeling, Here is how I used to re-frame it: You are an individual, you were born equal, everyone walks the earth alone, everyone is trying just to survive another day...That being said, how can anyone be better than you? Someone better than you? Ha! Impossible, we are all just squirrels looking for our nut. You know what the shit of it is. Most guys out there deep down are thinking the same thing. BUT, its time to stop. Seriously. STOP. Stop for yourself, stop so your not thinking the same thing everyone else, make your reality. If you stop this prior thought pattern, suddenly your boss, everyone else is insecure...but no, not you. Make your own reality and ALLOW people to participate in it. Watch this mensroom.tv video with Frank Kermit on inner game. http://www.mensroom.tv/season-1/frank-k ... inner-game Check out framing in NLP and you might just want to pick up some reading material... Good luck man. |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 12:30 pm ] |
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OK dude, this might be controversial, but is the only thing that has helped me, because I was giving other people higher value than me the whole time. Walk around, look at people, and in your mind say they are all bitches. Especially girls. All girls are sluts and bitches, and be prepared for bitchiness. That and hanging around this womanizing natural has helped me. Find a natural who doesn't give a fuck. Best way. But if you can't, mentally call all the girls bitches in your mind. Cause they're gonna have to prove themselves to you. Once they've proven themselves, remove the bitch sign, but until then, "bitch, bitch, bitch." |
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