Hi All,
I just had a few points I could use some help with, but firstly I'd just like to say that I have no fear talking to women its the science side im struggling with and actually working out their patterns so a justa couple of general questions and then a couple more fine tunned ones if I may
Ok firstly, down the road of IoIs. How do you tell if a HB is giving you a IoI or just being polite in a sense of vocal interaction?
PUA - Thats a nice top (for example)
HB - thank you, I like yours very colourful (example)
or
PUA - (Anything)
HB - How are you? (example)
-Inspiration for this question was purely that I was talking to a HB and wasn't sure if I was racking up the IoIs or just her being well mannerd?
OK number 2 - So maybe you meet a HB and you open a set, you isolate her, start some kino, you number close, hell you kiss close, hell your actually gonna FK Close - leaving a bar you think (as in my case) - Cant goto mine coz i still live with parents (or maybe ur place is just a tip i duno
) And she hints that you can't goto hers for the same reason... An alley isnt the way to do it, neither is a motel room as that means spending out for 2 or so hours... so what would an experienced PUA do? make a clever retreat and look for someone else, or ???Number 3 - This is actually what I'm trying to overcome at the moment then - Met a chick online, met for drinks went cool had a good laugh and then were onto date 2, took her out to dinner and offerd to pay... (Dumb move - thats why they call me numpty) so anyhow I call her and say "do you see this as being more than friends or???"
She gives me this word for word... "You truely are a lovely guy, your the perfect guy and you have no idea how hard it is to find that. With our lifesytles being so hectic we'd only see each other like once a month but also I felt we didn't have that much in common"
Ok so I take this on board and think the following - We've seen each other 3 times in 8 days (cant be that busy) we spent 3 hrs on date 1 and 3hrs on date 2 laughing joking and talking about almost everything... I took her to an Ice hockey match on the 3rd date and we spent it messing about and I negged her a few times which got me a cheeky punch in the arm.
first and second dates ended with a hug and kiss on the cheek - 3rd was just a long hug becuase i recieved the above message end of the second date and was determind to fight back and proove myself. End of each date she did comment on how much fun she'd had.
I'm just a bit confused, this HB8 knows I like her and shes cancelled on a friend to see me one night, she gives what i think are crap excuses and I know shes single and not just feeling guilty. Theres a definate chemistry and I'm just a bit stuck...
I read the LJBF post and there was a nice point about not really saying anything to her for a few days and when asked "hows your week?" go "well i went out with this chick, she was cool, probably see her again etc etc" try and get her jealous and make a move... I really dunno any help please
Guys Sorry to waffle on - just really struggling... any help muchly appreciated as this HB8 is deffo GF material if I can break her down.
Cheers,
